[diebitter]

I like the words cordial, civil, respectful, polite, but they all sound a little aloof.

Here's what the thesaurus says for 'cordial'


accordant, agreeing, amiable, brotherly, civil, clubby, concordant, cordial, courteous, cozy, empathic, fraternal, good-humored, harmonious, kind, kindly, like-minded, mellow, neighborly, pacific, peaceable, peaceful, polite, regular, sociable, sympathetic, understanding


I kind of like amiable.