[Chaostracize]

Ari-

I have a very clear picture of what I want and how I am going to get it. I don't sit around and wait for it to come to me. I know it won't. But there is a big difference between waiting for life to happen and making life happen. To say talking about dreams is pointless is like creating something and having no idea what you want the end result to be. Am I going to want all of these things when I'm sixty? Maybe not. But by working for that result now gives me choices for when I am in that position. And yes, you are being cynical. However, I do agree that far too many people expect [censored] to fall in their laps and view their future as a set inevitibility and its those people who are better off not setting those goals because they will only be disappointed.