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Also, a side note (pretend it's unrelated to my above post) but is it ever OK to move to be with a girl? On one hand that seems incredibly lame and pathetic. On the other hand, if it's true love and meant to be (shudder) then that has to happen at some point, ya?

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To be blunt, respect comes before love. Declaring your love for a girl while she's at another guys house isn't going to earn you much respect. I would have played hardball, say something snappy like "oh, thats how it is", and hung up.

You had 3 years to prove your worth and your level of love to this girl, and either a) you didn't do enough during the relationship to make her realise this, in which case its too late, or b) she doesn't have enough feelings to continue.

Either way, you're out of luck. Save your dignity next time. Girls go back to guys with dignity.