Re: Emotional Affairs
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But most likely I would freak out because I'm in a relationship and it would have crossed the line and there's guilt and everything.
[/ QUOTE ]There is a term in the industry for this called ASD (anti-[censored]-defense). If you trip it in a woman you are done because she will freak out and stop out of guilt or out of worry about how she will be perceived. But, if you do it right a woman's ASD will not go up and everyone involved will enjoy your self immensely [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]
For example, if you say to a girl (especially an attached girl), "hey, lets go up to my room and have sex" you are very likely going to trip the ASD and she will object even if she desperately wants to have sex with you. But, if you say, "Hey. You have to check out the view from my room" she will likely not object if she is interested and her ASD will not be tripped even if she kinda knows your intentions. You have given her plausible deniability for her own mind.
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