Re: Emotional Affairs
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Is there really that much difference? I don't think I would find it comforting if my girlfriend said, "Oh, I have a special connection with this guy but we don't touch".
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Good god you don't tell them you have a special connection Cobretti! I'm only telling you guys cuz, you know, it's an anonymous forum and I'm confiding. But hell no i wouldn't tell him that i had a connection with some engineer who recently left our office. You think I'm an idiot? The point is that a girl can have a "cool" friendship (i'm sick of the word *special*) without wanting to have an affair. I think that was the point but I'm sort of tired so I'm not really sure anymore what i was babbling about [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img].
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I am kidding a bit to make a point. But, if you don't tell, they you are deceiving you partner by omission. Doesn't that make things worse?
Also, I think a girl can have that connection without wanting it to go further but I don't think a guy can (again, unless the girl is ugly).
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