Re: Emotional Affairs
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Given my nature, being "just friends" would be really hard for me if it's someone I'm emotionally and physically attracted to, so I just don't associate with those women at all. So, I suppose, for me, no opposite sex friends unless I find them repugnant [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]
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This seems more fair and wise -- proscribing behavior for oneself, based on knowledge of one's own limitations, rather than someone else. An individual solution to an individual question, rather than a blanket rule for all or flat statement that things work the same for everyone.
A knowledge of one's limitations is a good thing, even if the limitations themselves are unfortunate.
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