[EnigmaCanada]

Hey guys, thanks for all your contributions to this discussion.

The key thing I've gotten so far is confidence and outlook are far more important than looks. I've always thought and believed that.

Its just that the only time for me to interact with women is when I go to the bars. Those places just aren't a realistic enough representation of the world there, because there, looks get so much more emphasized. Its loud, and alot of people there don't know each other, so people just use their eyes to judge other people. I guess thats the part where I let it bother me that I'm not this visually dominant person that will stand out from the crowd; and I put more value into physical appearance than it really should have.