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Old 09-26-2007, 10:25 AM
tpir tpir is offline
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Default Re: Ask me about breaking my engagement (and why maybe you should too)

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I just wasn't attracted to her in the way you need to be in a serious relationship.

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I was never honest enough with myself to admit how important this missing piece was.

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But do we really *need* this for a successful relationship? Or is it our balls yelling at us and telling us to go out and be promiscuous?

I recently broke up with a girl for very similar reasons. And while I don't regret it. I am confused about the role of sex and if it's really as important as I was making it out to be. i.e. maybe it *shouldn't* be important and we just suck at life. Hopefully not... Interested in hearing more of your thoughts along these lines. You even said yourself that the infatuation with your new person would probably go away. So then what? On to the next girl? That is how our cousins in the jungle roll but I am not sure that is a good thing.
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