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done it
it's fine if she makes the first move
as long as you don't violate her you can still be friends with him even after you break up

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This is the best advice in the thread. It all comes down to your intentions and how you treat her.

Take it slow and don't try to do it behind your friend's back. Even so, it does entail some risk, but it is up to you (and her) to decide if it is worth it.

There are some psycho girls that will use their brother as a weapon against you, especially in the breakup phase. They will tell their brother how you hurt and abused them regardless of whether or not it is true.

So there is definitely some risk involved, but that is to be found in any relationship. If you really like her, than go for it, just take it slow and ignore the usual BBBV4Life advice.

And one last piece of advice. Once you are older (as in >30) you will realize that the phrase 'bros before hos' is a copout used by small-minded men to validate the abuse of women.