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I agree this is awful, and as a dealer I I try to muck losing hands very quickly to avoid this. Trust me, at the levels I deal, there's no advanced collusion going on. I've only gotten a little testy a couple of times with people who won big pots with suckouts demanded to see the loser's hand, suggesting that they stack their chips graciously.

However, you do yourself a disservice to get irritated by this. Yes, we all know why IWTSTH exists, but nobody who asks for it knows or thinks about this. Like it or not, it IS a rule for information these days. You can't fight it, so don't let it bother you. You'll affect yourself negatively more than you'll affect anybody else positively.