I am also in the (nearly) exact same situation. Can anyone verify a resort casino in the Caribbean islands that offers regular games and tournaments of hold-em poker in an actual poker room (not in some fleabag back-room that a cab driver takes you to)?
I'm starting to conclude that there aren't many to choose from, except for maybe the seven tables at the Excelsior Casino inside the Holiday Inn SunSpree on Aruba.
This page is somewhat helpful, though half its links seem outdated:
http://www.gocee.com/poker/casino/international.htm