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my fiancee didnt even blink an eye when i mentioned that if we married we would have a prenup (before i ever proposed to her, she wasnt even my fiancee at that time obviously).

I am not rich (actually by this forum standards probably make in the bottom 30% salary) and my gf makes 20k less than me and we still have a prenup. I am bring significant more assets to the marriage than she is (through home equity and 401 k) and she feels that she shouldnt take half of all the appreciation during marriage just because she married me.

If your gf is a practical chick she wont have trouble seeing the need of it.

FFK, no you are not a heartless bitch. I wish all women were like you.