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Old 08-16-2007, 01:04 AM
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Default Re: Some Stuff About PUA (very long)

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bkholdem,

Could you explain how "sex addiction" is distinguishable from "being a normal human being with impulse control problems?"

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I used the term as a matter of convenience. I was very obsessive and compulisive about having ZNS's and ONS's, as well as going to sex clubs, swing clubs, etc. I would even plan vacations around swing clubs and things like that. My entire weekends were spent hunting and sexing. It was compulsive and I was kind of on the edge to some degree (although I didn't do escorts unless someone else paid). On certain nights in a swing club I would have sex with 3-4 different women before leaving the place for the night. I also liked an audience quite a bit so had exhibitionistic tendencies for sure as well (not flashing or anything like that but doing it in front of crouds at swing parties and things like that). I really don't want to go into it much more than this. Suffice it to say that eventually I came to recongize it as a problem.

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Im a normal human being with really bad impulse control problems. Ive had a few real nymphos before, the difference is akin to not being able to have only one drink when you go out, and liver cirrhosis by the age of 25.
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