[Anacardo]

Diablo,

Not exactly. Ima go ahead and chalk this down as yet another balance / synthesis thing.

To me manhood is about humble competence. Just to speak well, and act well, and think well, and live well, with sort of a Zen attitude towards yourself, never thinking anything particularly positive or negative about yourself at all, really. (I feel compelled to note that I am exhibiting nearly none of these qualities atm.)

Do I have an example in mind? Thank you for asking. I think 'Chair, otherwise known as FFK's boyfriend, is a pretty good example of what I'm talking about. He's chill, laid-back, a little self-deprecating but clearly doesn't sweat [censored] or take himself too seriously. He seems like he really appreciates his woman and doesn't look on her as the just reward of a lifetime of mad pimping or anything. I really admire all that stuff; to me that's better than any big-swinging-dick baller in the world.