[Wolfram]

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We probably must hit an ace on flop and when we do we are sure to win less when our hand is good than he wins when he is ahead.

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That is the price you pay for being OOP, and there's no way to avoid that, even if you have a better hand.

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We also are more proned to be the one folding the best hand.

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How are you folding the best hand here? I guess if you flop the deuce and the board is something horrid like 2-K-Q-J-8 and he has A9 you could be doing that, but in most cases we're showing down if we hit a piece. Please tell me that you're never folding if you hit the Ace.

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Ignore metagame considerations because he is a by the book TAG

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There are other people at the table, no?

All in all you're getting way to good odds to not see a flop, and some of the bad situations that you mention happen rarely enough that they are outweighed by when you flopp a hidden monster like 2-2-K or A-2-7 and he has AK and misplays it by giving you too much action.