Re: Ugh proposal dilemma
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this just sounds like last minute nerves. she hasn't seen her in 2.5 years and after this weekend she'll probably never see her again and for the short period she's in her mind they probably wont talk, it'll just be some small envy. meanwhile you're about to drop a life changing question.
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Having been in a very similar situation recently, the other woman isn't really the point, per se. She is merely the likely focus for the insecurities that his soon-to-be fiancee has. That all of this will be at a wedding is another likely irritant. So yeah, she'll be agitated. I don't think it will ruin your proposal, though I will say that it seems to me that proposing at somebody else's wedding (even if it's just after) seems kind of tacky.
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