[DannyOcean_]

Yeah, if she's really becoming emotional about all of this, its hard to blame her and say 'You really should view things in a more logical light. You are, in fact, an adult and please no more of your silly beliefs.'

Everyone has the point where some amount of pain and suffering or whatever will cause them to act irrationally. Every single person on Earth. No one is Spock. Just because yours is farther down the line and hers is really close doesn't make you any better or worse than her. Just different. So try to focus on maximizing HER happiness and HER state of being and you'll probably be doing a good job.