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In Italy on the autostradas, everyone drives exactly the way you described, (nice description by the way.)

Now, your question is how do you make all you seppo's drive the same way? Well, I assume that you've only noticed this about American drivers since you've come back from Europe, so this bellies the fact that before you left you drove in the same way without realising it. So the answer to your question is send all of your fellow countrymen over to Europe on driving information tours.