JoeT-
Congrats- like everyone said, the best of times are coming!
A quick practical gift tip - for the shower etc, give each set of grandparents or other relatives an age range for clothes to buy (ie - your folks/siblings 0-3 mos, hers 3-6 mos, etc.) otherwise you'll likely end up with so much newborn stuff that your kid will never have to wear the same outfit twice, and in no time at all you'll be on the hook for a whole new wardrobe. Spacing out the gift range helps.
Also get one of these :
day/night bottle warmer . Seriously, it's the best baby gear we have.