Re: Pregnant GF
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Congratulations Daddy!
Seriously, you played but thought there's never a chance you're gonna pay?
Stop thinking in any way she's betrayed you by following her natural instincts and the foundation she's grown up with, or wishing the kid somehow won't make it. Grow up.
Go read some sites about the emotional aftermath of abortion even when women were 100% that it's what they wanted. It's brutal.
While I understand this isn't the map you've laid out for yourself, these are the cards you've been dealt. That's life.
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The OP mentioned that his gf was on the pill, AND that they agreed to have an abortion should something like this happened. It seems to me that he was playing the cards he was dealt, and then somebody swapped his cards when he wasn't looking.
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By having sex he decided to play the hand. He just got sucked out on. Time to deal with the consequences should she decide to have the child. Forget about the mother for a minute and think about another kid coming into the world without a father. Running would be seriously cruel.
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