Re: What to do when a girl loves you (and you dont love them back)
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OP: Be an actual man, end it.
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How is that being an actual man?
Flip the situation. You're in love with a girl you're seeing and she only wants you for sex. Would you rather her break it off with you or just say "I'm sorry, I don't want a relationship" and continue having sex with you?
OP: Just be honest. Tell her you aren't looking for a relationship but enjoy her company and would like to continue hanging out. If she's ok with it, great. If not, oh well.
[/ QUOTE ]if you don't end it, you perpetuate her fantasy of hope which prevents her from having a real relationship with someone else.
role reversal isn't equivalent on average, because many/most guys would love some girl to have casual sex all the time with them, but girls on average don't want casual sex all the time.
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