Re: When to meet the parents? Do I have issues?
I guess I don't understand what your problem is.
What kind of "ordeal" are you speaking of? You say you are proud of your mom, but does she present you with some kind of embarassment? (mental problem, physical problem, lives in a trailer park with 20 cats...etc etc) Do you anticipate your girlfriends meeting your mom to be a big deal? It shouldn't be. Why in the world would you let long term relationships with girls you still liked end because of this very very small thing?
Maybe things are different in SF...but if I was in high school or college and dated a girl for a year+ and didn't at least bring them home to meet my parents once...they would be somewhat pissed and think that I was embarassed of them.
In all honesty, I just think that you are putting way to much thought into this whole situation. It's your girlfriend, who you like(love?) and it's your Mom..who you love....and dinner. How difficult could this possibly be?
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