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Old 10-31-2006, 09:27 AM
madnak madnak is offline
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Default Re: Love a girl but there is a dilemma

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Oh I see. Yeah she feels similar but feels insecure about her std etc. I would definitely make sure the feeling was mutual before I took the relationship to the next level.

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What I was getting at is whether you're interested in her because she's good looking and witty and blah blah blah, or whether you're interested in her because she matters to you.

Basically if you're thinking "she has a value of X and I'm not likely to find anyone else with a value of X" then I'd recommend against it. If you're thinking "there's nobody else like her anywhere," then maybe you have something to work with. So far you've mainly talked about her quantifiable attributes, and if that's your main concern I don't think it's a good idea to go for it.
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