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Old 10-30-2006, 09:05 PM
Speedlimits Speedlimits is offline
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Default Re: Love a girl but there is a dilemma

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In all seriousness, please recognize that you will not feel this way about her after X-years. Also, I do believe that there are soul mates, tons and tons of them.

Your reply raises a question that I think highlights some very real concerns. Where do you rate yourself, where do you rate her and where does she rate herself and you in your relationship? At or near equal has to be the answer for all, otherwise the unequal dynamics will overwhelm one of you.

How old are you? If you are over 27 and you want to spend the rest of your life with this woman, I would consider disregarding the std. But, if you are under that age, I would let her go. Good luck with whatever you decide.

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Why do ages even matter? That seems a bit arbitrary to assign some random age as the cutoff as to whether I stay with her or not.
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