Re: First Loves
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If you think about her when you are feeling down it may not be the girl at all. You may be missing how she made you feel. It is tough to feel that way ever again.
Now I need a drink.
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Truer words would be hard to find. Though she wasn't my first love, there is a girl whom I haven't talked to in almost three years, but I can still monitor my overall life satisfaction and mental well-being by how often I think about her. Whenever I start thinking about her on a daily basis, I know that I'm entering a downward spiral (thoughts of her are a symptom rather than the cause), even if it doesn't consciously feel that way yet.
Scott
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