Re: Girlfriends going to parties without you - advice?
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We're in a close and committed relationship btw
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then start acting like it and let her go.
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Some people have made some good responses here. If you and your GF live together there is protocol to follow. Out of respect I would tell my bf(we live together) that I'm going out with so and so to a kegger or to a bar to have some drinks. "I should be back in a few hours" "do you need me to do anything before I go?" "want me to bring you some jack in the box on the way home" is what I say when I want to have some seperation. It is completely healthy to want that. Ya when I'm at the bars I will flirt with guys, they flirt back. Some ask me "where my man's at?!"(btw that is such a stupid thing to say when you want a girls attention, or HOLLA!) It is normal for women to want that attention. Trust me. If you are in a "CLOSE AND COMMITED" relationship there is nothing to worry about. The problem is that "close and commited" is a cliche that is thrown around way too lightly. I think you are probably not "close" if you are worried about her being social with out you. YOu should talk to her about how you feel. Don't be an ass when you do. Don't be possesive when you do. If you are this way when you bring it up, expect your relationship to go down hill if it isn't going there already. I would suggest writing down what you want to say while you are calm and rationale and reading off this when you talk to her. Guys with jealousy issues can be way too passionate to not act like freakin morons when it comes time to address these topics.
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