my pajama pants (longish girl issue)
 

Ok so about a month ago I was hanging out with this girl and we ended up going back to my place. This was maybe the second time we had gone out so I wasn't really expecting to have sex yet. She had made it apparent she wanted to stay over though and she needed something to sleep in because she wasn't comfortable in just her panties and bra. So I let her use my favorite pajama pants. I haven't had them for that long but they're my favorites mostly because they are the only ones I have. So we go to sleep (as anticipated) and in the morning when she's getting ready to leave I notice she is holding my pajama pants. In aj oking way she asks if she can keep them. I'm not sure if she is seriously trying to keep them or what but I give her a funny look and she tells me she wants to wash them. Fine. I let her go home with my pajama pants.
It has now been like a month since that night and I want my pajama pants back. I've seen her maybe twice or three times since then but I keep forgetting to ask about them. I kinda expected her to just bring them with her the next time I saw her but she didn't or it slips my mind.
Has she claimed my beloved pajamas or do I just confront her?

Re: my pajama pants (longish girl issue)
 

She is waiting for you to spend the night at her place and is just keeping them there for you.

Re: my pajama pants (longish girl issue)
 

This is probably just her way of telling you that wearing pajama pants is gay.

Re: my pajama pants (longish girl issue)
 

are you sleeping with her yet? if you are, just ask for them back.

if you're not, is it because of you or her? if it's lack of initation on your part, she's probably holding the pants back until she gets into yours. if it's her, she's probably psychotic. or just forgetful.

Re: my pajama pants (longish girl issue)
 

They are hers now.

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I disagree.

OP:

How about this:

"Can I have my pajamas back? No? Ok."

then you could sit on the couch and eat ice cream.

Re: my pajama pants (longish girl issue)
 

Is this even a serious question? Obviously if you can't remember to get your favorite pants back, you can't expect her memory to be any better.

Re: my pajama pants (longish girl issue)
 

I think this is a sign she wants to bang you soon. Make a move

Re: my pajama pants (longish girl issue)
 

Make a joke that you're usually the one wearing the pants in a relationship and you'd like them back. Please.

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