Pointless phone conversations with your SO
 

I live in the same city as my gf, and we see each other 2-3 times a week. This is overly sufficient for me to discuss with her what is going on in our lives and between us and how our days went. The problem is that she wants to talk to me for 20-30 minutes every day on the phone. I can't [censored] stand it. I have absolutely nothing to say to her most of the time (neither does she) and am forced to make lame conversation every day. It is starting to really drive me insane. Then she'll get mad and think I don't care if i don't act enthused over the phone, when really I just hate talking on the phone about pointless [censored]. She knows I don't like talking on the phone yet still calls me and expects me to call her every so often. We have to think hard about things to talk about, and most conversations are just rehashes of one we've already had. My time is limited with work and I would rather do other things than talk every night on the phone with her.

Anyone else have this issue? My play?

and yes I realize this post makes me seem like an unappreciative douche but i just got off the phone with her and need to vent right now.

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Dude I know what you mean...I hate that crap.

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In my past there are two scenarios,

Either you act like a dick and always get off the phone after 10-15 mintues, she will be mad at you most of the time and be bitchy, which will wear you down slowly because she will be relentless about how you don't care about her etc, although she will still come by and [censored] you all the time and after sex she will be sweet and nice and all that.

Or you cave in and let her talk and talk and talk while your conversations slowly grow longer and longer until one day you realize you've been on the phone for 74 mintues and she isn't even got to the part of her story yet where she's out the door on her way to work yet and the only noise you've made so far is mmmhmm, mmmhmm, mmmhmm.

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She only wants to talk 20-30 minutes a day? Brother you got it good. Quit complaining.

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Dude I know what you mean...I hate that crap.

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im young and still care about my SO

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I would guess that either one, or both of you is boring if you can't make that little conversation.

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I would guess that either one, or both of you is boring if you can't make that little conversation.

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Shut up you intellectual whore.

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she wants to talk to you every day so she knows your all hers.

marking her territory. that daily phone call is the relationship equivalent of her pissing on a fire hydrant.

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She only wants to talk 20-30 minutes a day? Brother you got it good. Quit complaining.

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