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Jurollo 10-09-2007 02:07 AM

Do all guys go through the \"chase is more fun\" stage?
 
So I have been thinking about my future a lot lately, mainly because I purchased a house and am realizing that even though I am still relatively young at 24 I am not a child anymore and have begun to think more about serious relationships and how I basically have always avoided them, even though I have always internally told myself thats what I wanted it has clearly not been my desire as I have essentially, without exception chased girls I liked and just bailed the [censored] out once I got them and new they liked me. I like the challenge of it all I guess and I think I get sick of people quickly as well. So as I see my friends get picked off one by one by the marriage bug I question if something is just fundamentally wrong with me. My question is:

For the older dudes here:
Did you go through this? What snapped you out of it? Was it a conscious decision or just an epiphany when you met someone? Or was it, dare I say, just a logical decision for the easy way out?

For the dudes my age:
Everyone think this way? Am an exception to the rule? Do you also have an interest in maturing a little and moving on a little or are you happy with randomness?

MatthewRyan 10-09-2007 02:09 AM

Re: Do all guys go through the \"chase is more fun\" stage?
 
run-on

and yes

Jurollo 10-09-2007 02:15 AM

Re: Do all guys go through the \"chase is more fun\" stage?
 
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run-on

and yes

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I dont think it was that much of a run on post.

10-09-2007 02:15 AM

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adsman 10-09-2007 02:30 AM

Re: Do all guys go through the \"chase is more fun\" stage?
 
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Just comes down to it being a ton of effort to be a single dude.

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I'm 36 and single and I have to say that i couldn't disagree with this more.

goodsamaritan 10-09-2007 02:40 AM

Re: Do all guys go through the \"chase is more fun\" stage?
 
You're 24, relax.

Jurollo 10-09-2007 02:45 AM

Re: Do all guys go through the \"chase is more fun\" stage?
 
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You're 24, relax.

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I am not like super excitedly anxious about it. I am just curious when people snapped out of this stage essentially. I am doing other super adult things, and still am in my partying stage in other aspects.

ArturiusX 10-09-2007 04:07 AM

Re: Do all guys go through the \"chase is more fun\" stage?
 
If all your friends are getting married at 24, get new, better, more fun friends.

Keepitsimple 10-09-2007 04:38 AM

Re: Do all guys go through the \"chase is more fun\" stage?
 
The thrill of the hunt. There is nothing like it.

jfish 10-09-2007 04:58 AM

Re: Do all guys go through the \"chase is more fun\" stage?
 
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The thrill of the hunt. There is nothing like it.

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simple and true


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