Intimacy: oral vs. regular sex
 

So I was recently having a conversation with some people, women included, on this topic. At hand is the topic of whether regular sex is more intimate than oral sex.

I'm of the mind that it's not: I mean how can my tongue licking the holiest of holies while I fingerbang away, or her mouth slobbering over my knob be less intimate than us grinding our crotches together? But apparently I'm in the minority. Anyway, poll time.

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I'm with ya Tug. I've been arguing this for years.

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Strongly disagree

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For me, the order of intimacy goes.

Kissing<<<<BJ<<<<<Sex&l t;<<<<<holding hands<<<<<<going down on her.

Obviously this is completely based in a male donimated POV where a girl putting my dick in her mouth until it shoots a foreign bodily fluid into her throat isn't that intimate, but me going down on her is like something I'll do once we're officially dating.

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It's all about face to face LDO

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FWIW I have had sex with a fair amount of girls and

50% of the time I got a BJ on a prior occasion

of the times when sex came the first hookup, I got some head first in 85% of the time.

I don't think I've gone down on a girl until we have already had sex at least once.

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For me, the order of intimacy goes.

Kissing<<<<BJ<<<<<Sex&l t;<<<<<holding hands<<<<<<going down on her.

Obviously this is completely based in a male donimated POV where a girl putting my dick in her mouth until it shoots a foreign bodily fluid into her throat isn't that intimate, but me going down on her is like something I'll do once we're officially dating.

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I bet you could cut that down to a couple of arrows, and still get your point across!

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For me, the order of intimacy goes.

Kissing<<<<BJ<<<<<Sex&l t;<<<<<holding hands<<<<<<going down on her.

Obviously this is completely based in a male donimated POV where a girl putting my dick in her mouth until it shoots a foreign bodily fluid into her throat isn't that intimate, but me going down on her is like something I'll do once we're officially dating.

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I bet you could cut that down to a couple of arrows, and still get your point across!

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i bet you're right!

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Noah,

Mechanical like or real soulful-like with the eyes and dirty talk and [censored]?

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tuq,

I had a pretty successful college career and have lived with the girl I plan to marry for a few years now. I think penetration is more intimate and, despite how flippant it's become around here, it's really not even close.