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Life beat: The girl I was digging, and hanging out with recently, making out etc...Pulled a doozy on me tonight. She gets a call from some guy she had a thing for. She told me she put him on mute till he hangs up, yet she went up stairs to continue talking to him. I followed about a minute later to see what she was doing and I overheard, "If you come get me right now, Ill leave with you." WTF!?!?! I basically listened in on the entire conversation and then she gets busted as she's coming downstairs and my roommate Greg says, "He's been up stairs the whole time."

AHAHA. SHe's like OH [censored]! Im busted!

Her whole plan was to have someone take her to a store down the road for something to eat, and once there she was going to get out of the car and jump into his and then explain she wanted to hang out with him now~!?!?!?! She said she wanted to smoke some weed, then have him take her home so she could go to bed cause her legs are sore from work.

She's already stayed the night here with me once, and she knows Id gladly massage her legs, yet she wants to go get high with this tall gangly [censored] nerd. She's actually attractive. I can't imagine what the [censored] she sees in this loser.

I dont even know why Im so upset, we both perfer casual relationships, but one where you're not messing around with anyone else. Obviously the bitch lied. Oh I know why Im upset, I always start to develop feelings for a girl even if its a casual relationship. I try to not get attached because I know how it always ends up, but its so hard at times.

HYayahcayahayahchaayaya.

BBV4LIFE you guys still care for me right?!??!

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She's actually attractive.

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I can't tell.

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we both perfer casual relationships

I always start to develop feelings for a girl even if its a casual relationship

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I think you prefer lazy serious relationships, right?

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Now this is the type of love I expect from BBV. Thank you.

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Ill try and find her myspace page and get a pic up for you guys. Obv she's no perfect 10 so dont get your hopes up guys.

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we both perfer casual relationships, but one where you're not messing around with anyone else.

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by both you mean her and the gangly guy?

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why would your roommate say that? Doesn't sound like something Jesse or Danny would do.

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doesn't sound like you've sealed the deal. Move on. No leg massages w/out mclovin' btw.

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Her whole plan was to have someone take her to a store down the road for something to eat, and once there she was going to get out of the car and jump into his and then explain she wanted to hang out with him now~!?!?!?! She said she wanted to smoke some weed, then have him take her home so she could go to bed cause her legs are sore from work.


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Wtf are you talking about in this paragraph, seriously?

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Her whole plan was to have someone take her to a store down the road for something to eat, and once there she was going to get out of the car and jump into his and then explain she wanted to hang out with him now~!?!?!?! She said she wanted to smoke some weed, then have him take her home so she could go to bed cause her legs are sore from work.


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Wtf are you talking about in this paragraph, seriously?

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sounds like the chloroform was beginning to wear off, and she was mustering a plan of escape

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Her whole plan was to have someone take her to a store down the road for something to eat, and once there she was going to get out of the car and jump into his and then explain she wanted to hang out with him now~!?!?!?! She said she wanted to smoke some weed, then have him take her home so she could go to bed cause her legs are sore from work.


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Wtf are you talking about in this paragraph, seriously?

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Im just paraphrasing what she said. She was drunk. She wanted one of us to take her to the gas station/market down the road for something to eat..There she was going to get out of the car, explain she wanted to hang out with her guy friend she likes, smoke weed with him, then have him "take her home."

I hope that cleared it up some for you.

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I can't make out if you dumped her on the spot or not? You better did. Even if you still want to salvage something from this... you better did.

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I can't make out if you dumped her on the spot or not? You better did. Even if you still want to salvage something from this... you better did.

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I told her friend that was here with her, "that Ill make it real simple for her to decide between me or him. She can have him."

Then when the dumb bitch came up stairs to apologize I told her she just needs to leave and go be with Andy because I dont want to see her again.

Oh and heres that pic guys. Its the only pic I could get from her myspace since I dont have one, and I dont feel like signing up for one so I can get a better pic for you guys. She looks better than the pic shows, but whatever. If she were a perfect ten most people in here would still rag on her [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] So feel free to rag all you want.

http://a446.ac-images.myspacecdn.com...b40627f70d.jpg

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doesn't sound like you've sealed the deal. Move on. No leg massages w/out mclovin' btw.

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It was so funny when she came downstairs. She told my roommate, "I hope he didn't hear anything I said on the phone." My roomie heard part of her conversation, and he said, "Well if he didn't hear it, Im gonna tell him what you said on the phone." I [img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img] my roomie.

I could have sealed the deal the first night I met her when she was hammered, but I have more class than that. But for those that have no problem [censored] a drunk chick rock on. Its just not my style.

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YGOS?

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YGOS?

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Can someone explain what this means?

I don't post in BBV4L often.

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YGOS?

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Can someone explain what this means?

I don't post in BBV4L often.

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You gay or something?

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YGOS?

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No, but there have been plenty of gay guys who wish I were. Im a [censored] mag much to my dismay [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]. Theres nothing worse than having a gay waiter go and talk to two of his gay friends at another table, then point me out while they all got that big "Im gonna rape you tonight" smile on their faces.

Now Im gonna catch hell for telling you guys that, but at least you guys are getting some entertainment out of my miserable life.

New motto for BBV4LIFE: Getting enjoyment out of your miserable life!

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She was drunk.

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LOL

ok now wait a minute, that sort of changes everything, you know what i mean?

i mean would you want her to judge you based on stupid [censored] you do with other girls when you're drunk?

you sound extremely emo..... drunk girls do not deal well with emo guys......... [censored], many sober girls don't deal well with emo guys

i'd chill........ possibly tell her what a retard she was being when she sobers up and see if she says sorry, gets mad at you for letting her go see some retard, or just shrugs

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She was drunk.

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LOL

ok now wait a minute, that sort of changes everything, you know what i mean?

i mean would you want her to judge you based on stupid [censored] you do with other girls when you're drunk?

you sound extremely emo..... drunk girls do not deal well with emo guys......... [censored], many sober girls don't deal well with emo guys

i'd chill........ possibly tell her what a retard she was being when she sobers up and see if she says sorry, gets mad at you for letting her go see some retard, or just shrugs

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You do have a point that she was drunk, but I dont feel being drunk excuses someone for stupid behavior. I dont actually drink, so yeah Im gonna hold someone to my expectations even though it may not be fair. Oh and no Im not an EMO. I do enjoy making fun of them though.

Whats my line if I forgave her Kei? Ask her if I can SIIHP?

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She looks dumb and obv uses her vagine to manipulate guys, so stop caring. Sounds like more of a bruised ego more than you actually liking her.

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She said she wanted to smoke some weed, then have him take her home so she could go to bed cause her legs are sore from work.


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hope you dont believe that. she sounds FOS.
obviously she was planning on getting the LD from this guy.

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I dont feel being drunk excuses someone for stupid behavior.

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no, it doesn't, but it does make people act stupid

so, now, if you don't drink, but she was drunk, how did that happen?

did the two of you go somewhere where she got sloshed and you sat there looking at her all aloof, superior, and disappointed

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did she get drunk somewhere, and in her drunk state the first person she wanted to go and see was you?

this is pretty key.......

also, since you've only known her for a short time, but you've seen her drunk twice, if you want to keep seeing her, you'd better find a way of handling it

finally, my guess as to why she wanted to see the gangly nerd is that she found you boring because she was drunk and you weren't...... relatively good chance that it's not personal, but basically being drunk in front of someone who is sober is generally not very much fun

ok so that wasn't final, do you smoke weed? if you don't smoke weed and you don't drink, and she does plenty of both, you're in for a rough ride........ i'm not saying it's impossible, but you've got to be really [censored] cool as a cucumberrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr to pull it off...... iow she's gonna drive you up the [censored] wall all the [censored] time, so unless you really dig her, ditch her, or start drinking and smoking

anyway, she sounds like a party girl, not your type

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I dont feel being drunk excuses someone for stupid behavior.

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no, it doesn't, but it does make people act stupid

so, now, if you don't drink, but she was drunk, how did that happen?

did the two of you go somewhere where she got sloshed and you sat there looking at her all aloof, superior, and disappointed

or

did she get drunk somewhere, and in her drunk state the first person she wanted to go and see was you?

this is pretty key.......

also, since you've only known her for a short time, but you've seen her drunk twice, if you want to keep seeing her, you'd better find a way of handling it

finally, my guess as to why she wanted to see the gangly nerd is that she found you boring because she was drunk and you weren't...... relatively good chance that it's not personal, but basically being drunk in front of someone who is sober is generally not very much fun

ok so that wasn't final, do you smoke weed? if you don't smoke weed and you don't drink, and she does plenty of both, you're in for a rough ride........ i'm not saying it's impossible, but you've got to be really [censored] cool as a cucumberrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr to pull it off...... iow she's gonna drive you up the [censored] wall all the [censored] time, so unless you really dig her, ditch her, or start drinking and smoking

anyway, she sounds like a party girl, not your type

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Well her and her friend usually come over to the house 2 or 3 nights a week and drink along with my roommate Greg. They all know I dont drink but they get drunk most of the time but we still manage to have a fun time. And I dind't act all superior that she was drinking and I wasnt. I have no problem with her wanting to drink. She actually came over one night and didn't drink at all. That night we had a great time together. Other nights she's been drunk before and we still had a fun time.

Im not even sure how drunk she was tonight. She had like 7 beers, and Ive seen her far worse off before. And like you pointed out she's a party girl, and thats not my style. Ill smoke weed on rare occasions, same with alcohol. She's often saying, "I party too much. I need to cut back on it." But talk is cheap. And no Ive never pointed out she parties too much. I accepted it from the getgo, but I think you're right . Even if she didn't pull what she did tonight, it probably wouldn't work out in the long term.

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She said she wanted to smoke some weed, then have him take her home so she could go to bed cause her legs are sore from work.


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hope you dont believe that. she sounds FOS.
obviously she was planning on getting the LD from this guy.

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Yeah I was very skeptical of her when she said that. Number 1 rule for women: Believe %5 of what they say, and know that they're lying the other 95% of the time.

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Her unusual cheeks and out-of-focus eyes indicates that she is incapable of fidelity.

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I dont feel being drunk excuses someone for stupid behavior.

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no, it doesn't, but it does make people act stupid

so, now, if you don't drink, but she was drunk, how did that happen?

did the two of you go somewhere where she got sloshed and you sat there looking at her all aloof, superior, and disappointed

or

did she get drunk somewhere, and in her drunk state the first person she wanted to go and see was you?

this is pretty key.......

also, since you've only known her for a short time, but you've seen her drunk twice, if you want to keep seeing her, you'd better find a way of handling it

finally, my guess as to why she wanted to see the gangly nerd is that she found you boring because she was drunk and you weren't...... relatively good chance that it's not personal, but basically being drunk in front of someone who is sober is generally not very much fun

ok so that wasn't final, do you smoke weed? if you don't smoke weed and you don't drink, and she does plenty of both, you're in for a rough ride........ i'm not saying it's impossible, but you've got to be really [censored] cool as a cucumberrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr to pull it off...... iow she's gonna drive you up the [censored] wall all the [censored] time, so unless you really dig her, ditch her, or start drinking and smoking

anyway, she sounds like a party girl, not your type

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Well her and her friend usually come over to the house 2 or 3 nights a week and drink along with my roommate Greg. They all know I dont drink but they get drunk most of the time but we still manage to have a fun time. And I dind't act all superior that she was drinking and I wasnt. I have no problem with her wanting to drink. She actually came over one night and didn't drink at all. That night we had a great time together. Other nights she's been drunk before and we still had a fun time.

Im not even sure how drunk she was tonight. She had like 7 beers, and Ive seen her far worse off before. And like you pointed out she's a party girl, and thats not my style. Ill smoke weed on rare occasions, same with alcohol. She's often saying, "I party too much. I need to cut back on it." But talk is cheap. And no Ive never pointed out she parties too much. I accepted it from the getgo, but I think you're right . Even if she didn't pull what she did tonight, it probably wouldn't work out in the long term.

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oh i see, that's tough unless you put a lot of effort into it

there's basically no hope of anything more than screwing around unless you try and act like someone you're not, and you'd probably have to do that to screw around with her anyway

if however, one day you feel really crappy, she's probably the perfect person to call up to get drunk with and [censored]...... of course you'd probably regret it, but meh

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Her unusual cheeks and out-of-focus eyes indicates that she is incapable of fidelity.

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You are probably right. She's always going on about how she never lies to guys, or cheats. That she's very good to guys she likes/dates, etc. Obviously if you can't believe your own lies the first time, just keep repeating it until becomes the truth.

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I told her friend that was here with her, "that Ill make it real simple for her to decide between me or him. She can have him."

Then when the dumb bitch came up stairs to apologize I told her she just needs to leave and go be with Andy because I dont want to see her again.

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No no no no... she was going to hang out with him anyway, she doesn't need your permission. Instead you should have slagged her for disrespecting you and told her you don't take any of that [censored] from a random ho. Ie. "Get out of my house and don't even think of coming back unless it's to apologize to me, now beat it bitch." (less or more harsh depending on your personal style. It has to be congruent with your image)

You should also have completely ignored the existence of this Andy person. Never ever acknowledge the other guy... ever!

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Alanis got you down again?

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Yeah I was very skeptical of her when she said that. Number 1 rule for women: Believe %5 of what they say, and know that they're lying the other 95% of the time.

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Or... don't listen to what they say at all just look at their actions instead.

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She wouldn't be he first chick Ive regretted [censored] Kei. Ill keep that in mind for the future though. Thanks for the thoughtful responses. Im feeling much better now after posting.

MitchL: You're right about the bruised ego. It hurts when a girl ditches you to go hang out with some other guy, but Ive had girls [censored] me over far worse before. She's just an amateur compared to some others Ive encountered. What a n00b.

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I told her friend that was here with her, "that Ill make it real simple for her to decide between me or him. She can have him."

Then when the dumb bitch came up stairs to apologize I told her she just needs to leave and go be with Andy because I dont want to see her again.

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No no no no... she was going to hang out with him anyway, she doesn't need your permission. Instead you should have slagged her for disrespecting you and told her you don't take any of that [censored] from a random ho. Ie. "Get out of my house and don't even think of coming back unless it's to apologize to me, now beat it bitch." (less or more harsh depending on your personal style. It has to be congruent with your image)

You should also have completely ignored the existence of this Andy person. Never ever acknowledge the other guy... ever!

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I wanted to do far worse than that. I was so furious I wanted to punch her lights out. Not that I would ever hurt a girl like that. At least the extreme anger passed fairly quickly and I wasn't having anymore violent thoughts. I do think I have anger issues at times. I tend to just let [censored] fester inside me until someone does something that pushes me over the edge. Not very healthy [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img].


I need to be more like my idol and be more happy go lucky type of guy. Not let [censored] bother me so much.

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Sounds like the kind of girl you want to get back with only to F her one more time, then blow it all over her face.

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hey dave remember that show you had that was a rip-off of americas funniest home videos. oh, and the jackalope! dave, do you remember the jackalope!

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If you want a "casual relationship", then why do you care who she has sex with?

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Wow the advice in this thread is pretty stupid.

Here's the correct answer: F--k her silly about 3 weeks ago.

Once you've determined that she only wants something casual, who cares if she fks some other guy? If she leaves say "peace out" and play Xbox. When she comes over to your house, pound her like a hammer, then drive her where-ever to let some nerdy douche give her a foot massage.

In conclusion: Tuck yr cape in Captain Saveaho.
--GA

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GA,

perfect advice.