Hypothetical First Date Question. (Subject Matter NSFW).
 

Put aside all your personal preferences on this question. Only consider your preference to get laid on the second date.

So you're on a first date with a girl. The two of you have a good time and she comes back to your apartment with you. The two of you finish a bottle of white wine on your couch while, talking, flirting, and kissing. You decide you want to get it on so you ask her to come to your room. She says, "Id really love to, and i will if you want, but I'm on my period." In order to get you laid on the second date (when she's not on her period)...

Re: Hypothetical First Date Question. (Subject Matter NSFW).
 

Wow...the first one will get you labelled as a weirdo creep by a good portion of girls.

The second one is gay. Just kiss her and change the subject.

Re: Hypothetical First Date Question. (Subject Matter NSFW).
 

If you cant pot the pink, pot the brown.

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numero 2 by far..

Re: Hypothetical First Date Question. (Subject Matter NSFW).
 

btw id u ask her to come to your room your already doing something wrong..

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I have my fair share of phobias when it comes to women, but christ I've never even considered or heard of anyone worrying about being considered a pussy because you won't bang a girl on her period.

The correct reply is "I'm a blowie only on the first date kinda guy anyways." It'll never work, but it's smooth regardless.

Re: Hypothetical First Date Question. (Subject Matter NSFW).
 

say, "thats ok, I don't put out on the first date anyway"

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Say "I don't secks on the first date honey, but how would you like a full body massage, I'm good at those! Depending on what I think, you may have a chance next time"

Don't forget to wink flirtatiously as you say this

Then, give her a full body massage WITHOUT CLOTHES ON




Her, not you

Re: Hypothetical First Date Question. (Subject Matter NSFW).
 

"What does your period have to do with you giving me head?"

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this is the same principle as why generally makeouts within the first 10 minutes of meeting a girl are easy, but seriously mess up your chances of laying her. The reason is when you try to get together, she thinks "jeez i already did X with him, whats next, sex?" while not being comfortable with you.

the prerequisites for sex are simply her comfort and attraction in you. In the OP, [ QUOTE ]
You decide you want to get it on so you ask her to come to your room. She says, "Id really love to, and i will if you want, but I'm on my period."

[/ QUOTE ] the male character handles the situation akwardly, and the female characters dialogue is at the very least contrived, if not completely impossible.

Now, only considering the preference to get laid on the second outing and as played, the situation is still complex. If you sleep with her on the first outing and she is unsatisfied, you probably won't get a second try if she is attractive. If she is decent or worse it doesn't matter what you do. If you don't sleep with her and play it off badly then it hinders your chances. If you don't sleep with her and you are cool about it, then you have a good shot to sleep with her, but not as much of a shot as if you had [censored] her proper and she is attractive enough to know what is and isn't a good [censored] (i can explain this subtle point if need be, but this post is already too long.)

So, to recap:
[censored] her first is the correct answer, if you make her feel good OR you suck at handling the situation when you decide not to [censored] her. otherwise passing is correct. in either case, <u>the play that makes her most comfortable with you is almost always best. </u>