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are u looking into getting a boyfriend..? (or do u already have one ?)

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king, i am looking

vehn, what stories

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kolo,
sad thing about your dad. its all about keeping them genes out there. hes pissed that his genes will die now. (unless the future brings some funny methods of male/male pregnancy thingys)
how did you realize youre gay?
how have you been dealing with your sexulity before realizing it?
you said you tried to hit on girls. did you ever have sex with one? did you go limp?
isnt it extremely disturbing to be penetrated?

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king, i am looking

vehn, what stories

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I dunno get started mister

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do you think kolo toure is fit? i bet he has a big black [censored] you could suck.

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kolo,
sad thing about your dad. its all about keeping them genes out there. hes pissed that his genes will die now. (unless the future brings some funny methods of male/male pregnancy thingys)
how did you realize youre gay?
how have you been dealing with your sexulity before realizing it?
you said you tried to hit on girls. did you ever have sex with one? did you go limp?
isnt it extremely disturbing to be penetrated?

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idk how, I just did
with difficulty
had sex didn't go limp but didn't really enjoy it that much
not really no

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do you think kolo toure is fit? i bet he has a big black [censored] you could suck.

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he mos def has a nice body

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have you seen(heard of the actual dude) kinsey?
think the "everybodys kinda bisexual" thesis works?

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no
no

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kolo -


keep on keepin on

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man who cares if you are gay, esp your dad

that sucks man. i can't see getting pissed off if my kid was gay.

OH MAN NEVER TALK TO ME AGAIN YOU LIKE DUDES

please.

gl with it all tho

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= kolo ... or who?

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are you worried about aids? do you plan to wrap it up/make him wrap it up?

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a little. yes unless i am in a srs relationship

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areyou gonna use your 7k post in this thread?

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= kolo ... or who?

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lol wtf, who is Mike Haven and why did he edit my post? Those are two pics of me, I asked kolo if he would do me if I was gay.

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lol I definetly think you are gay than jay. I thought those were pics of OP.

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lol I definetly think you are gay than jay. I thought those were pics of OP.

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He's just English.

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lol I definetly think you are gay than jay. I thought those were pics of OP.

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Jay TR of that girl in the black in first pic? looks like a solid brag.

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A few things about the study finding I posted:

A. Things like "well a lot of my friends dislike gays and I doubt all are latent gays," doesn't really contribute anything at all. Like, at all.

B. Obv I doubt the study is conclusive and a larger sample size would be needed.

C. I really wanted to see that guy's reaction since I knew he would be disgusted.

D. People are often very vocal/visible about things that they are insecure about. Think girls who wear overwhelming amounts of makeup, guys who flash cash everywhere they go, or people who always talk down to others. These people are often insecure about their looks, monetary status, and intellect, respectively. You don't think it's possible that the extreme gay bashers are desperately trying to affirm their heteroness so nobody will question it? I mean, I have as much desire to bang dudes as this dude says he does (none), but I'm not out screaming about disgusting it is, how they are varying degrees of retarded, etc.

E. I copy/pasted that write up from another site. They weren't my words, for whatever that is worth.

F. I like how his, and anyone who gets angry at something I write, first response to me was "OMG a cokehead lol shutup." I've never done coke in my life.

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Yes, she has pouty eyes. I like pouty eyes.

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A few things about the study finding I posted:

A. Things like "well a lot of my friends dislike gays and I doubt all are latent gays," doesn't really contribute anything at all. Like, at all.

B. Obv I doubt the study is conclusive and a larger sample size would be needed.


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I think my statement has about the same amount of weight behind it as the study you presented to us. i.e. probably not much atall. Thinking 80% of homophobes are latent/closet homosexuals is just ridiculous.

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A few things about the study finding I posted:

A. Things like "well a lot of my friends dislike gays and I doubt all are latent gays," doesn't really contribute anything at all. Like, at all.

B. Obv I doubt the study is conclusive and a larger sample size would be needed.


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I think my statement has about the same amount of weight behind it as the study you presented to us. i.e. probably not much atall. Thinking 80% of homophobes are latent/closet homosexuals is just ridiculous.

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Except one actually did some research, however small, and one is just an assumption about some dudes you know. There are varying degrees of sexuality, meaning not every homophobe is completely gay. I agree that 80% is ridiculous, but if you look at the most hardcore, extreme anti-gay people, I would not be surprised at all if a decent amount were some level of gay. To come out unprovoked and loudly exclaim how hetero you are and how much gays suck when everyone will presume you are hetero to begin with just reeks of insecurity.

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Also, what would you say the odds were that a study of this size found the results that it did if there were no correlation between homophobia and being more aroused when watching gay porn than non-homophobes among the general population?

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If you are going to get laid 100 times with 100 dudes, what percentage of the time will you be pitching, vs. catching.

Thx

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First of all, as a pastor, I wanted to weigh in. I won't even touch all of the discussion on the bible since 1) it would be the longest post ever and 2) you guys wouldn't believe me anyway...suffice it to say none of you have any idea about the historical accuracy of the bible nor any of the scholarly issures surrounding it and are merely expressing what you think. No big, but you are waaaaay off.

Secondly, re: Christians and homosexuals. Gays think 'church people' hate them because, well, church people hate them, and it is completely the fault of 'church people'. Somehow the majority of Christians have stopped loving people whom Jesus has never stopped loving. There's no way we can call ourselves followers of Christ while openly detesting people. It is a non sequiter.

But in all of these questions we're missing perhaps the most vital: OP, what was your relationship with your father from your earliest childhood? Was he abusive? Aloof? Unloving/uncaring? Absent? Because this is the case in the vastly overwhelming majority of homosexuals. See, I don't believe that gays are born that way, but I truly believe that *they* believe that they were born that way. Reason being, from their earliest rememberances, i.e. the time that heteros were noticing girls, they were noticing boys. What else could they believe than that they were born like that? Therefore, I do not believe that the vast majority of homosexuals chose to be so. However, science seems to believe that the relationship with the child and his/her father from a very young age actually determines these types of gender issues. Some wire seems to get crossed mentally/emotionally in the earliest stages of development. So, OP, what was your relationship with your father like?

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I was pretty much a single parent child.

RAF, I would probably do both each time

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Do you believe that you will start banging dogs and cats since you are now obv on a slippery slope to Luciferland?

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nc, i lol'ed

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I was pretty much a single parent child.

RAF, I would probably do both each time

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There you go....I was 100% certain the answer would be something like that (i.e. father not around, father abusive, father withholding love). It is almost certainly the case in virtually every circumstance.

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Are you now going to invest in better cushions for your chairs? Any plans to go cottaging?

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yes and no

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Does cottaging disgust you as much as it does me?

Edit: also other forms of extremely promiscuous homosexualism.

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it does disgust me quite a bit tbh

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do you watch football?
do you eat chicken wings?
do you play any sports?
do you dislike getting sweaty?
do you pop your collar?
do you wear tight pants?
do you wear makeup? if so, pic?

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yes
no
yes
meh
yes
some of the time
yes

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wtf is cottaging?

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I was pretty much a single parent child.

RAF, I would probably do both each time

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There you go....I was 100% certain the answer would be something like that (i.e. father not around, father abusive, father withholding love). It is almost certainly the case in virtually every circumstance.

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for what it's worth, i know several gay people who have good relationships with their fathers.

My best-friend-growing-up's younger brother, I've known that this kid is gay since he was 3 years old. I used to hang out at their house all the time when I was a kid and I've probably spent a cumulative year in that house so I feel like I know their family pretty well. The dad is very nice, smart, attentive, doesn't get mad very easily, not abusive or absent at all. My friend is a very well-adjusted normal straight guy. And his brother is gayer than Little Richard's underpants. It's been patently obvious to any observer, even when he was a small child, that he's gay. He came out to his parents about a year ago (I think he's around 16 now) and they were basically like "ldo."

It's not like this disproves your theory or anything, Passaman. Just offering a counterexample.




Also, if your theory is that people are gay because they were abused/ not loved enough as a child, how does this justify hating on gay people/ saying that homosexuality is a sin. Whether it's something that's genetically predetermined or something that's developed as a result of childhood abuse, it's still something that's not the person's fault and not the person's choice.

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wow, one popping their collar is the gheyest (dont mean it in a sexual sense, more in a stupid sense) thing that someone can do by way of fashion. Can i see what a gay dude looks like with makeup on?