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Jay Riall 08-23-2007 11:48 AM

Re: Ask me about : coming out
 
Obviously the answer is homosexual people = animals. Homosexual animals = animals too! You must be slow if you don't realize this!

[Phill] 08-23-2007 03:11 PM

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Dunno what YGOS means, but for the record i dont really find it disgusting no.

What consenting adults do together ive no problem with - living in Manchester it would be odd if i hadnt been down the canal area and id be lying if i said at 19 (when i moved here) i was comfortable with seeing guys in hot pants dancing on a bar or guys making out, but mostly its from the weird factor having not seen anything like that from my small town upbringing - now at 23 i realise how stupid it was, frankly i just dont care or react at all when i see a gay couple the same as if it were a straight couple.

ebepse 08-23-2007 03:16 PM

Re: Ask me about : coming out
 
post a pic of you holding up a BBV4L sign, then a pic of you jerking off another man to confirm

vhawk01 08-23-2007 03:29 PM

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post a pic of you holding up a BBV4L sign, then a pic of you jerking off another man to confirm

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OP is like the tenth gayest person in this thread, lol.

75s 08-23-2007 03:44 PM

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kolo: are you the first out gay male member (lol) of 2+2 that you know of or are there more? You don't have to out them (if you don't want to).

--GA

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There was another guy bigsomething or other that had caught the ghey or was ghey from the outset. (I do not mean myself or bigt439)

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durrrr?

MissChriss 08-23-2007 03:53 PM

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Are you good in giving a back/neck massage?

Subfallen 08-23-2007 04:23 PM

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kolo -

What % of guys do you find attractive? What age range? Was there any sort of transition period for you during which you thought of yourself as bisexual?

During the time you still "assumed" (right word?) you were straight, did you fantasize about women at all? If yes, did your fantasies include vaginal penetration, or mostly oral sex/foreplay stuff?

Thx.

React1oN 08-23-2007 06:20 PM

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Assuming you believe you were born gay, which most gay people seem to, do you consider yourself retarded?

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any particular reason he should consider himself retarded? Perhaps b/c he doesnt live the way it says to in a book featuring creationism (LOL!), Noah saving every single species of animal inhabiting the earth on an ark, virgin birth, and a man being swallowed by a whale and surviving? Assuming you believe in Christianity, which most anti-homosexual bigots do, do you consider yourself retarded?

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do you consider yourself retarded that you don't realise a lot of Christians think that those stories are allegories or parable?

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Define 'a lot'.

So you're a christian but you don't believe in God?

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Lol no, I believe in God, I just believe a lot of the stories (especially Old Testement ones) obviously aren't factual and are more allegorical. They were written thousands of years ago ffs and passed down by word of mouth, embellished, elaborated upon etc etc, of course they're not literal.

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ok but according to christian theology these stories came straight from God to the authors. surely you see the conflict? you (not you personally b/c i havent seen you do it) can't use one part of a book to condemn others and then write off the parts of the same book that dont add up by saying "you arent supposed to take it literally."

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lol cba to have this argument at this time of night (also partly because I am pretty damn inarticulate on my beliefs). Also I get lol'd at for them (which is just as bigoted as people think I am for thinking homosexuality is wrong).

[/ QUOTE ]No. Being gay is not a choice, believing in something is.

Fwiw, I'm not saying you should be "lol'd at," but that isn't that same.

React1oN 08-23-2007 06:33 PM

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Good luck, bro. I hope everything works out for you.

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tisthefire 08-23-2007 06:48 PM

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post a pic of you holding up a BBV4L sign, then a pic of you jerking off another man to confirm

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OP is like the tenth gayest person in this thread, lol.

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Jay Riall 08-23-2007 07:12 PM

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post a pic of you holding up a BBV4L sign, then a pic of you jerking off another man to confirm

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OP is like the tenth gayest person in this thread, lol.

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loooooooooool


The Killing of Georgie

Kolo - thought you might like this song you big queer! Seriously though great song, my favouritist Rod Stewart song evar! Hope things going ok with your Dad and Sis.

kolotoure 08-23-2007 07:36 PM

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Are you good in giving a back/neck massage?

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yes

MissChriss 08-23-2007 07:39 PM

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Are you good in giving a back/neck massage?

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yes

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Can u please give me a massage when I'm in England?

kolotoure 08-23-2007 07:39 PM

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kolo -

What % of guys do you find attractive? What age range? Was there any sort of transition period for you during which you thought of yourself as bisexual?

During the time you still "assumed" (right word?) you were straight, did you fantasize about women at all? If yes, did your fantasies include vaginal penetration, or mostly oral sex/foreplay stuff?

Thx.

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about 20% I guess,16-34,i guess there was for a time

I did occasionally but it was mostly oral/foreplay stuff

kolotoure 08-23-2007 07:40 PM

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Are you good in giving a back/neck massage?

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yes

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Can u please give me a massage when I'm in England?

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sure

phobos 08-23-2007 08:37 PM

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post a pic of you holding up a BBV4L sign, then a pic of you jerking off another man to confirm

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OP is like the tenth gayest person in this thread, lol.

[/ QUOTE ]hahahaha qft

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loooooooooool


The Killing of Georgie

Kolo - thought you might like this song you big queer! Seriously though great song, my favouritist Rod Stewart song evar! Hope things going ok with your Dad and Sis.

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[img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img]rod stewart

Jay Riall 08-23-2007 08:40 PM

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post a pic of you holding up a BBV4L sign, then a pic of you jerking off another man to confirm

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OP is like the tenth gayest person in this thread, lol.

[/ QUOTE ]hahahaha qft

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loooooooooool


The Killing of Georgie

Kolo - thought you might like this song you big queer! Seriously though great song, my favouritist Rod Stewart song evar! Hope things going ok with your Dad and Sis.

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[img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img]rod stewart

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kolo told me on msn the song's not gay enough for him. What a gay!

kolotoure 08-23-2007 08:45 PM

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This is more my thing

Barretboy 08-23-2007 08:49 PM

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Freddy Mercury had the most amazing voice I've ever heard.

Donkey-Milker 08-23-2007 09:04 PM

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I HAVE THE BEST QUESTION ON THIS THREAD....

who would you rather have sex with.....

Greg Raymer...

OR....

Jessica Alba?

in theory it should be Raymer as he is a guy and you are not bisexual but gay instead...

just like most straight guys would rather have sex with an ugly girl than Brad Pitt etc...

anyway... answer this question with reasons please. ty

Jay Riall 08-23-2007 09:06 PM

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I think I'd much rather do Brad Pitt than say Kathy Leibert and its not really close.

kolotoure 08-23-2007 09:09 PM

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I think I'd much rather do Brad Pitt than say Kathy Leibert and its not really close.

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and Jessica Alba over Raymer. Do I get to siihp?

SomethingClever 08-23-2007 09:35 PM

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FWIW I used to work with a couple of gay dudes. One of them had a super messed up dad situation, the other didn't.

Small sample size but I think it's just the way some people are.

I mean hetero people aren't all into the same stuff, doesn't it make some sense that some dudes would be into dudes?

Also based on my sample size, gay dudes are [censored] hilarious and have better senses of humor than most.

forshure 08-23-2007 09:40 PM

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Also based on my sample size, gay dudes are [censored] hilarious and have better senses of humor than most.

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My sample size proves the opposite, that gay people I know are actually really negative funny

Jay Riall 08-23-2007 09:45 PM

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We had a gay kid in my flat at Uni when I was first there. He was unbeleivably shy/rude to us. We made a tonne of effort to make friends with him, invited him to sit with us in the living room, invited him out drinking etc. but he just said no every time and stayed in his room the whole time. I think he must have just come out or something. I admit it kinda wierded me out a bit having a gay ghost-person living in the same flat as me. lol gays.

SABR42 08-24-2007 01:52 AM

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Kolo: gl to you.

Futuredoc: I agree with pretty much everything you have said in this thread.

[censored] the haters.

ebepse 08-24-2007 02:02 AM

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http://youtube.com/watch?v=r4qH3nlCOaM

SABR42 08-24-2007 02:07 AM

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Also, serious question for Kolo:

Can you auto-fellate? If not, do you wish you could?

DannyOcean_ 08-24-2007 02:23 AM

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do you consider yourself more top or bottom, if you're only doing one for the night or w/e? Can you teach my gf awesome BJ tricks or sumthin?

I_AM_EVIL 08-24-2007 02:41 AM

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Also, serious question for Kolo:

Can you auto-fellate? If not, do you wish you could?

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I don't think this relates to being gay or not. 99.9% of all men wish they could do this and the other 0.10% lie.

SABR42 08-24-2007 02:52 AM

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Also, serious question for Kolo:

Can you auto-fellate? If not, do you wish you could?

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I don't think this relates to being gay or not. 99.9% of all men wish they could do this and the other 0.10% lie.

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True. I guess it wasn't really a gay question, just in general.

FWIW I used to be able to do it when I was like 14, but my neck and back were sore for a week so I haven't done it since then lol.

Scotty. 08-24-2007 02:54 AM

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When I see two guys making out, it makes me mildly uncomfortable. The thought of actually having sex with another man or seeing man on man porno is pretty gross to me.

Do you find it at all uncomfortable to see straight people make out? Are you grossed out by the thought of having sex with a woman, or by viewing heterosexual porno?

If the answers to the above are all "no", do you think that the reason I feel this way is because I am homophobic to a certain extent, or is this just a fairly natural reaction for typical heterosexual males?

Subfallen 08-24-2007 03:20 AM

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First of all, as a pastor, I wanted to weigh in. I won't even touch all of the discussion on the bible since 1) it would be the longest post ever and 2) you guys wouldn't believe me anyway...suffice it to say none of you have any idea about the historical accuracy of the bible nor any of the scholarly issures surrounding it and are merely expressing what you think. No big, but you are waaaaay off.

Secondly, re: Christians and homosexuals. Gays think 'church people' hate them because, well, church people hate them, and it is completely the fault of 'church people'. Somehow the majority of Christians have stopped loving people whom Jesus has never stopped loving. There's no way we can call ourselves followers of Christ while openly detesting people. It is a non sequiter.

But in all of these questions we're missing perhaps the most vital: OP, what was your relationship with your father from your earliest childhood? Was he abusive? Aloof? Unloving/uncaring? Absent? Because this is the case in the vastly overwhelming majority of homosexuals. See, I don't believe that gays are born that way, but I truly believe that *they* believe that they were born that way. Reason being, from their earliest rememberances, i.e. the time that heteros were noticing girls, they were noticing boys. What else could they believe than that they were born like that? Therefore, I do not believe that the vast majority of homosexuals chose to be so. However, science seems to believe that the relationship with the child and his/her father from a very young age actually determines these types of gender issues. Some wire seems to get crossed mentally/emotionally in the earliest stages of development. So, OP, what was your relationship with your father like?

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LOL, feel free to come on over to SMP and teach us all about the wonderful historicity of the Bible and how we are all way off. Only real Christians know anything about the Bible amirite?

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Oh yes, plz to be SMP'ing Passaman. I sometimes need reminding that approximate historicity is a most excellent basis for establishing metaphysical certainty on minor topics like the existence of an infinitely complex Deity that is overwhelmingly concerned with who is sucking whose cock.

kolotoure 08-24-2007 09:30 AM

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do you consider yourself more top or bottom, if you're only doing one for the night or w/e? Can you teach my gf awesome BJ tricks or sumthin?

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prob bottom, yes i probably could

kolotoure 08-24-2007 09:32 AM

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When I see two guys making out, it makes me mildly uncomfortable. The thought of actually having sex with another man or seeing man on man porno is pretty gross to me.

Do you find it at all uncomfortable to see straight people make out? Are you grossed out by the thought of having sex with a woman, or by viewing heterosexual porno?

If the answers to the above are all "no", do you think that the reason I feel this way is because I am homophobic to a certain extent, or is this just a fairly natural reaction for typical heterosexual males?

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heterosexual porn/making out doesn't gross me out and your reaction seems to be typical amongst hetero guys

ebepse 08-24-2007 11:22 AM

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how come you just came out and you already are talking like youre a pro on the subject

ghostface 08-24-2007 11:37 AM

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do you consider yourself more top or bottom, if you're only doing one for the night or w/e? Can you teach my gf awesome BJ tricks or sumthin?

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prob bottom, yes i probably could

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whats ur bj count up to 2 days after coming out

kolotoure 08-24-2007 11:38 AM

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idk

cwar 08-24-2007 11:58 AM

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goodluck kolo, hope everything works out

Allinlife 08-24-2007 02:03 PM

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props for you not leaving the thread after some ignorant people left rather hurtful questions/comments.

hope all works out..

I'm curious- do you have the streotypical "gay" way of talking? I'm wondering how common this is, cuz one of my HS friends came out this year, always kinda "talked" in a gay-way but people thought "he seems so gay that he can't be" and we were all shocked when he came out on facebook.


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