Re: Picking up some work chick... gameplan
 

I realize pics are mandatory in OOT so I'll work on that...

As for stalkerish - it's pretty much impossible not to come off as stalkerish when persuing some chick in this scenario. The goal is to minimize it which I'm trying to do. If I didn't add her to IM this week then I lost my chance, as I might as well grow a handlebar stache and drive a white van to work if I do it sometime in the future.

The way I looked at it was I either do something this week (at the expense of it not being the ideal approach) or my opportunity is gone for good.

And yeah, if she doesn't come by tomorrow then I agree, it's probably done. But if she does then this thread might get more interesting.

Re: Picking up some work chick... gameplan
 

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I realize pics are mandatory in OOT so I'll work on that...

As for stalkerish - it's pretty much impossible not to come off as stalkerish when persuing some chick in this scenario. The goal is to minimize it which I'm trying to do. If I didn't add her to IM this week then I lost my chance, as I might as well grow a handlebar stache and drive a white van to work if I do it sometime in the future.

The way I looked at it was I either do something this week (at the expense of it not being the ideal approach) or my opportunity is gone for good.

And yeah, if she doesn't come by tomorrow then I agree, it's probably done. But if she does then this thread might get more interesting.

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I think you did fine and definitely had to IM her now or never since it only gets creepier by the day. If she shows up tomorrow you've got a decent chance.

Re: Picking up some work chick... gameplan
 

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"any HR around??? you have beautiful eyes!" (the guy running it was a 60 year old man hitting on these 21 year old chicks)

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just caught a glimpse of my future.

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You did well. Action's on her. See what happens.

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Lol at "I've got beer at my desk"

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Lol at the insinuated "I've got wang at my desk"

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will do. maybe i'll wander around there tomorrow and find you guys

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she is trying to relieve the awquardness of the situation by turning it into a group thing rather than a you/her thing. Thus you need to ease off a bit. Let her make the next move.

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Doesn't seem so bad if she dug you at all. Keeping it short was good.

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Doesn't seem so bad if she dug you at all. Keeping it short was good.

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agreed

lose the exclamation marks though

Re: Picking up some work chick... gameplan
 

talk to her about other good-looking girls in the office
that you are keen on. guage reaction.

fire up her competitiveness.