Myspace Dominatrix
 

So I'm going about my usual messaging, and I stumble onto a girl who looks kinda cute, and is up ridiculously late like I am.

MYSPACE CONVO
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HER:
yeah even with work and [censored] I hardly sleep. xxxxxx is too boring during the day to actually tire someone out. So i am sleepless. So, lets get to know our fellow insomniacs. Where did you go to school, where do you work, whatever else you want to answer. Or any questions you want to ask me



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Tom
Date: Mar 29, 2006 1:44 AM

hah, sweet, you should add more pics, can't go wrong with the finger though

Yeah I have a pretty [censored] up schedule too, i stayed up til about 6am sun night, slept til 5 monday, stayed up til 5-6 monday night, got up at 11 to go to work tues, worked til 6, and i've been doing stuff since then



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: xxxxx
Date: Mar 29, 2006 1:42 AM

By the way I looked at your pictures and the last one you have, the one with you hat turned side ways. It is sexy



if i'm up rediculously aren't you too. And yeah its not rediculously late id you wake up at five but I was up at 745am. And then went back to sleep at 930, up at 1, but went to sleep at 5am but went to work at 3 got off at 10. What does that add up to. Rediculous? you tell me I can't fingure it out


----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Tom
Date: Mar 29, 2006 1:28 AM

always up ridiculously late?


afterthough: is it ridiculously late if you woke up at 5pm?
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So I get her to aim, where the conversation quickly heads uphill or downhill [img]/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img] Then I ask her something equivalent to what she likes in a guy....following aim convo
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her: no, i want you to be nice..... sweet........and ..........some other things
her: what would you like the other to be
me: i want it to be, whatever you want
her: i want to beat you with whip and chains and put you in handcuffs
me: do you have the necessary equipment?
her: i have handcuffs, and bondage straps, do those count
me: i guess those'll work
her: they better
me: or else what?
her: or I will make sure I have the whip ready for action
me: =-O
me: not too hard
her: why not the harder the better
me: maybe for you!
me: but it'll hurt
me: so what do you do to me after you handcuff me up?
her: strip you bite you and scratch you, and make sure that when I am done with you...........wuo won't do anything but sleep
me: =-O
her:
me: i don't think so
me: i don't usually do it like that, you think you could convince me?
her: i'm very........convincing


oops, forgot to put the discussion starter....



So anyway, what do i do about this?

I have never done anything like this before, is this something I should try once?

Re: Myspace Dominatrix
 

Don't count on anything sexual ever happening. Dominatrices *rarely* touch their subjects in a sexual manner; they're just into the power and control.

I dated a girl once who was a hot UCLA med student by day and a goth-club dominatrix by night. She was pretty much just using me for sex since I was boring and not into S&M at all. She did not respect the men who submitted to her, and was revolted by the thought of banging them or even kissing them.

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http://img82.imageshack.us/img82/7066/siihp5lv.jpg

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PJ, Thanks I will look into every side of what she wants: 1) just dominating me 2) sex and domination 3)straight up anal


WW, I hope this thread popped the magic 8ball's cherry


lbk

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Not Likely.

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M8ball, I meant the image

anyway, off to sleep, will be back later to fuel discussion of me being dominated!

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This is very creepy, everything about this is creepy.

I want my mommy

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Abso, Creepy in which way?

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Talking to a dominatrix about how you're going to get dominated is creepy. To me anyways. The AIM convo is a bit weird. I'm more of a domineering person, so this is kinda wierd and new territory.

However, it's your decision, please post a trip report w/ pics if such events take place.

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My take on dominatrixes is that they tend to be powerful women by nature, or play that roll to amuse themselves by pushover type men. Like private joker said, you're probably not gonna get any play from this girl, and don't expect to unload any Jesus Juice.

You'll probably walk away from this experience with a sore ass, and a lot of embarrassment, probably a little less self worth too.

My two cents.

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Abso, I def ain't done for getting whipped and not getting any action, that is [censored] absoludicrous

lbk

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Picture yourself sitting there on all fours with a gag ball in mouth, decked out in studded leather, adorned with chains and other paraphanalia getting the [censored] whipped out of you.

Is this a situation you want to reflect upon?

I'm not saying this is life altering or anything, it's just not my style.

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no pics?

Melch

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rediculously

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right now i think this is the most annoying misspelling in the world

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rediculously

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right now i think this is the most annoying misspelling in the world

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Did you miss fingure?

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nope. there's just something about "rediculous" that really bugs me. i've seen a lot of it lately.

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if it doesn't turn you on to be hurt and in pain, you will not like it. And don't think if you go through the S&M stuff you'll then get laid...it usually doesn't work like that. The pain IS the sex.

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Picture yourself sitting there on all fours with a gag ball in mouth, decked out in studded leather, adorned with chains and other paraphanalia getting the [censored] whipped out of you.

Is this a situation you want to reflect upon?

I'm not saying this is life altering or anything, it's just not my style.

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[img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] I was just playin around, saying that OOT can be pretty brutal at times. You will start to leave this forum with a sore ass, some embarrassment, and feeling a little worse about yourself. heh. GET OUT WHILE YOU STILL CAN

But I don't wanna take away from this topic, cuz it's intriguing. If I had the opportunity to do something like this I think I'd do it.

OP, God Speed!!!

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Back Tattoo of the girl in question

http://img515.imageshack.us/img515/1...gelback9so.jpg


Thanks for the input so far.

I definitely didn't know whether it was a domination only thing, or a domination and sex thing. Is it worth trying to get sex only out of something like this?

All, I hope I was not the one who egregiously misspelled ridiculous. If so I apologize I too hate when that word is misspelled, and I noticed the girl did it alot

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There is just not something right about all of this. And it isn't just that someone thinks a hat turned to the side is sexy. How long had you guys talked for before she brought up what she is "looking" for? I am guessing she is a huge tease and is full of crap or is a guy.

craig

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Is it worth trying to get sex only out of something like this?

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No. It won't happen - unless she's full of it. In that case, find out if she'll let you spank her. Light S&M like this always leads to sex, in my experience.

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Craig,

It had been 1 hour 25 minutes before the first thing about whip/chains popped out of her mouth

lbk

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It had been 1 hour 25 minutes before the first thing about whip/chains popped out of her mouth

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It is tough to judge. But, why did she only talk to you on AIM? You get a number or anything? Also, from my understanding, Dom's do not equal "just sex" or "[censored]" even. There are a million girls on myspace, I don't see why you would worry about screwing just this one. If she is for real and you have an interest in S&M, then go for it. But, like I said, something doesn't seem right.

craig

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I usually don't ask for a number unless the girl is at the top of the 1-10 scale, or if I see some potential besides just hooking up.


lbk

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Dammit, the only chick that I've met off myspace in my area so far who's interested in BDSM is married. And here one just falls into your lap. [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

If I were you, assuming I was convinced that she's not psycho, I'd do it. But then again, I'm into that.

Re: Myspace Dominatrix
 

Dex, in your experience what happens

1) she ties you up and does her thing, and then both parties split with no sex

2) you either have sex before or after you get tied up


Thanks,


lbk

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Dex, in your experience what happens

1) she ties you up and does her thing, and then both parties split with no sex

2) you either have sex before or after you get tied up


Thanks,


lbk

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It depends entirely on the person. For some people, think of it as being like foreplay; doing it turns them on, then they want to get off sexually (note that this can, but doesn't necessarily, include YOU getting off!). For others, the act itself gets them off and they won't care about sex.

In your case, it doesn't sound too promising because of this:
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me: so what do you do to me after you handcuff me up?
her: strip you bite you and scratch you, and make sure that when I am done with you...........wuo won't do anything but sleep

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Re: Myspace Dominatrix
 

hide semen in her shoes, that way she'll know you mean business

Re: Myspace Dominatrix
 

Update? Trip report?

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Back Tattoo of the girl in question

http://img515.imageshack.us/img515/1...gelback9so.jpg


Thanks for the input so far.

I definitely didn't know whether it was a domination only thing, or a domination and sex thing. Is it worth trying to get sex only out of something like this?

All, I hope I was not the one who egregiously misspelled ridiculous. If so I apologize I too hate when that word is misspelled, and I noticed the girl did it alot

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this chick looks ass-nasty anyway. hell no i wouldn't meet up with her

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Despite what most think these girls aren't in most cases man haters. If you two met up and decided to get into this she'd likely assign you a "safe word" that you could say at any time to stop the play. Like previously mentioned, I probably wouldn't expect sex either. She would likely expect you, as being her "slave" to go down on her, though it would likely be in a ritualistic manner (through her pants). Or, maybe she's into this-

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