How much does a girl\'s promiscuous past bother you?
 

So I have gone on 3 dates with this girl. We hit it off real well,she is totally cool with a smoking body.We have had some deep conversations, and in our last one she had told me she had a promiscuous past. This was the day after our 3rd date(first time we had sex).

So Im guessing she has been with at least 50 and could be much more. The question is if this would stand in the way with you getting serious with somebody?

When I was younger this would have bothered me much more. But now I have no problem looking past this.

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as long as she isn't giving me the herp or the HIV i don't mind that much. a lot of girls that i've known with promiscuous pasts really aren't my type psychologically and i couldn't have a long-term relationship with them, but i don't respect them less for sleeping around or anything.

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who cares? The more experience a girl has just means I'm going to benefit from that knowledge.

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I used to care, now not so much.

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So I have gone on 3 dates with this girl. We hit it off real well,she is totally cool with a smoking body.We have had some deep conversations, and in our last one she had told me she had a promiscuous past. This was the day after our 3rd date(first time we had sex).

So Im guessing she has been with at least 50 and could be much more. The question is if this would stand in the way with you getting serious with somebody?

When I was younger this would have bothered me much more. But now I have no problem looking past this.

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Good work on growing up. Now continue to bang hot ass.

It will bother insecure men and young kids pretty badly. Actually, most all young kids are ridiculously insecure as well.

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It depends if she has slept with any of my friends or not. If she's clean, slept with 50 dudes, and none of the guys are one of my douche bag friends who have slept with tons and tons of chicks, I dotn mind. irrational? maybe.

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I'd just rather not know and keep it at that. A girl im seeing casually bringing something up like "this guy I used to hook up with..." would probably get me perturbed

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I see that as a green light, not a red flag.

I wonder why this would bother a guy at all. As someone else said, as long as there's no disease threat, who cares? You get the benefit of her practicing.

What would suck is if she has a promiscuous past and is terrible in bed.

b

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So I have gone on 3 dates with this girl. We hit it off real well,she is totally cool with a smoking body.We have had some deep conversations

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This is where you stop.

She's cool, hot, great to talk to, things are going well. Why ruin it by analyzing it?

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I see that as a green light, not a red flag.

I wonder why this would bother a guy at all. As someone else said, as long as there's no disease threat, who cares? You get the benefit of her practicing.

What would suck is if she has a promiscuous past and is terrible in bed.

b

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Or she has the chipped beef.

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as long as she isn't giving me the herp or the HIV i don't mind that much. a lot of girls that i've known with promiscuous pasts really aren't my type psychologically and i couldn't have a long-term relationship with them, but i don't respect them less for sleeping around or anything.

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The psychological issue may have been the reason of my rejection of this type of girl in my college days. The biggest turn off for me would be when a girl will try to overly-cuddle with after sex the first night. Used to bother me to the point where there was no way I could spend the night with them. That was it for me, never a second date. I would guess daddy issues. Damn do I miss college.

In regards to my OP I will give her the benefit until I see any odd behavior.

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I see that as a green light, not a red flag.

I wonder why this would bother a guy at all. As someone else said, as long as there's no disease threat, who cares? You get the benefit of her practicing.

What would suck is if she has a promiscuous past and is terrible in bed.

b

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Maybe it doesn't bother you, but that's not the same as you not being able to see why it bothers others, ya know? For example: it would bother plenty of people to imagine their significant other being bent over a hand rail and pounded to last tuesday by some other guy, ya understand? Is that simply not that hard to comprehend, or is it just me?

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Reminds me of a movie scene.

36!!! You sucked 36 dicks!!!? Does that include me?

Well, 37.

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Reminds me of a movie scene.

26!!! You sucked 26 dicks!!!? Does that include me?

Well, 27.

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You are 10 short.

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I wonder why this would bother a guy at all.

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Evolution.

J

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you equating promiscuous past to "at least 50" is ridiculous. Maybe it's 50+, maybe 100+, maybe 10+, all it means is that she feels (in relation to friends or w/e) it was a lot, and apparently YOU think a lot is 50+. I'd care a hell of a lot more about the connection the two of you have than about [censored] in the past.

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what i am referring to with the psychological thing is basically girls with major attachment issues, daddy issues, etc. a lot of these girls are the ones who have really promiscuous pasts (and are sometimes pretty exploited in the process). i just don't tend to be psychologically compatible with them, i like a girl who is a little more secure and can let me be independent.

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im 21 and 50 would bother me ALOT.

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So I have gone on 3 dates with this girl. We hit it off real well,she is totally cool with a smoking body.We have had some deep conversations, and in our last one she had told me she had a promiscuous past. This was the day after our 3rd date(first time we had sex).

So Im guessing she has been with at least 50 and could be much more. The question is if this would stand in the way with you getting serious with somebody?

When I was younger this would have bothered me much more. But now I have no problem looking past this.

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Good work on growing up. Now continue to bang hot ass.

It will bother insecure men and young kids pretty badly. Actually, most all young kids are ridiculously insecure as well.

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The actual act of sleeping with a lot of guys was not the issue.Less guys would be better, but it's not a deal breaker. My experience, it was the personality that came with the promiscuity.

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If a gal, depending on her age, had sex w/ 50 guys, chances are good that she has had a case of crabs..

just food for thought is all..

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So I have gone on 3 dates with this girl. We hit it off real well,she is totally cool with a smoking body.We have had some deep conversations, and in our last one she had told me she had a promiscuous past. This was the day after our 3rd date(first time we had sex).

So Im guessing she has been with at least 50 and could be much more. The question is if this would stand in the way with you getting serious with somebody?

When I was younger this would have bothered me much more. But now I have no problem looking past this.

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Good work on growing up. Now continue to bang hot ass.

It will bother insecure men and young kids pretty badly. Actually, most all young kids are ridiculously insecure as well.

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The actual act of sleeping with a lot of guys was not the issue.Less guys would be better, but it's not a deal breaker. My experience, it was the personality that came with the promiscuity.

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That's a good point, but the further away from college a woman gets, the more likely those crazy ones are now exhibiting other signs beyond emotional baggage and the herp.

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If a gal, depending on her age, had sex w/ 50 guys, chances are good that she has had a case of crabs..

just food for thought is all..

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Shaved, though she says she sometimes leaves a strip.

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Maybe it doesn't bother you, but that's not the same as you not being able to see why it bothers others, ya know? For example: it would bother plenty of people to imagine their significant other being bent over a hand rail and pounded to last tuesday by some other guy, ya understand? Is that simply not that hard to comprehend, or is it just me?

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Jealousy and insecurity are a waste of time. If the hand rail banging was that good, she wouldn't have married you. Well, unless you were really rich, but then you'd already know and understand the situation. I digress, spending time being bothered by insignificant personal [censored] that you can't fix is normally the hallmark of a weak-minded individual. Sure, if there are other pieces to the puzzle like personality defects or the diaper wearing thing before sex, that's understandable. But if it's strictly you being unable to get the picture of some other guy's long, hard [censored] ramming into your wife's ass out of your mind, you may have bigger issues than jealousy or insecurity.

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I used to care, now not so much.

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Yup.

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A girl has been around doesn't bother me so much. Unfortunately the personality that usually comes along with that type GREATLY does.

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you could draw a line down this thread and guess people's ages

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Yeah I'd be a bit disgruntled about it.

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I guess I could have added that I'm 27 and this stopped bothering me 3-4 years ago. When I was in my late teens and early 20's this is something that would have bothered me.

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24.

i told myself it didn't bother me 3 years ago.

it actually stopped bothering me in the last year or so.

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Maybe it doesn't bother you, but that's not the same as you not being able to see why it bothers others, ya know? For example: it would bother plenty of people to imagine their significant other being bent over a hand rail and pounded to last tuesday by some other guy, ya understand? Is that simply not that hard to comprehend, or is it just me?

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Jealousy and insecurity are a waste of time. If the hand rail banging was that good, she wouldn't have married you. Well, unless you were really rich, but then you'd already know and understand the situation. I digress, spending time being bothered by insignificant personal [censored] that you can't fix is normally the hallmark of a weak-minded individual. Sure, if there are other pieces to the puzzle like personality defects or the diaper wearing thing before sex, that's understandable. But if it's strictly you being unable to get the picture of some other guy's long, hard [censored] ramming into your wife's ass out of your mind, you may have bigger issues than jealousy or insecurity.

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21 and not married. But the fact that you dont seem to understand why this would bother some people is peculiar to me. I'm jealous or insecure because I dont like the idea of some guy slamming it home into my girlfriend (or whomever)? That's an interesting thought, and probably something i'll understand in a couple years, but until then I'd prefer to keep those images out of my head if at all necessary

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you could draw a line down this thread and guess people's ages

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Yeah but your line goes parabolic. Acceptance of the whoreish tendencies will tend to vanish as folks consider offspring.

But this thread conceptually is [censored] because everything is in the context; wild past but matured vs no way in hell is that [censored] going to raise my kids. It's judgment and no one can answer for you.

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I don't care too much. I gotta say that 50+ is probably way too high of an estimate, though.

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I'm jealous or insecure because I dont like the idea of some guy slamming it home into my girlfriend (or whomever)?

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Are you reading what you're writing?

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Hey guys,

I would say that this would definetly bother me. The bible makes it very clear that a woman should not have sex before marriage, and any woman that would disagree with the word of god has some serious issues!

How can I trust someone who has already broken her promise to the lord?

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Hey guys,

I would say that this would definetly bother me. The bible makes it very clear that a woman should not have sex before marriage, and any woman that would disagree with the word of god has some serious issues!

How can I trust someone who has already broken her promise to the lord?

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rofl

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So Im guessing she has been with at least 50 and could be much more.

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Wow. What a whore.

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The question is if this would stand in the way with you getting serious with somebody?


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Absolutely. The closer she is to a virgin, the better I feel about things. I'm not going to get involved with someone who views sex so casually that they have banged dozens of dudes.

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it would bother me, but only because i have a small penis.

if i had a huge schlong i wouldn't care.

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I'm jealous or insecure because I dont like the idea of some guy slamming it home into my girlfriend (or whomever)?

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Are you reading what you're writing?

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I just dont think it's something pleasant to think about, so I try not to. wtf is wrong with that? Would I wanna think about my sister gettings smashed by a 6'0 207lb. former Minnesota Vikings running back? Nope. Insecure? Nah.

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Advice...

1. Don't be such a puss.

2. Quit whining about her promiscuity if you're sexing her up on the third date...she's probably just way hotter than you and therefore has more third dates than you. Doesn't make her any more promiscuous.

3. Get over the "number" thing now...the older you get, everyone's number goes up. Eventually, you realize that the higher the number, the better the sex.

4. You're just insecure because she's probably sucked a bigger dinker than yours...she's probably had someone eat her vag better than you do...she's proabaly let someone else hit that arsehole...etc, etc, etc. Just realize that at the moment, you're the one giving it to her. Either you embrace that and quit being a puss or you're destined to always be a puss.

DON'T BE A PUSS....ENJOY THE PUSS YOU HAVE.

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But if it's strictly you being unable to get the picture of some other guy's long, hard [censored] ramming into your wife's ass out of your mind, you may have bigger issues than jealousy or insecurity.

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I'm curious as to what those might be.