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So my mom and dad told me yesterday that they are really my grandparents. My reaction was WTF!!!!!!!

So growing up I had a "sister". She was much older than me. 16 years, so i think she moved out of the house when I was like 2. I really don't remember her living with us at all. I remember her coming to visit on holidays and she was married. She got divorced about 5 years ago, I really didn't know her husband that well. My parents were really poor ,and so was my sister, but I remeber when she came to visit she always brought me really cool toys (guilt???). She got me a nintendo 64 for christmas which was awesome when I was 15 or whatever. My parents where mid 30s when I was born so my family was pretty normal besides the fact that I had a sister much older but I guess I didn't think about it that much. I figured we were both accidents cuz they were pretty young when they had her and pretty old when they had me. But whatver, most people are probably accidents and overall they were good parents.

My grandmother (great grandmother now I guess) just died and me my mom, dad and sister are all together for the first time in a while. My mom is crying since her mom just died and she decides to tell my now the whole story.

After she tells me my sister (mom) starts crying and my dad (grandfather)leaves the room. I am pretty shaken up by the whole thing. After a while I start asking questions. The first one is who the hell is my dad. I assumed it was the guy my sister was married to for a while but it turns out it was somebody else. He killed himself when my sister (mom) was pregnant and they figured the best shot I had at a decent life was telling me that they were my parents.

I cried for a little bit. I am 23 and don't remeber the last time I cried in front of my parents. The weird part is I had a pretty good childhood. I think there was no way my sister could have raised me given how young she was and given the fact that my dad shot himself when she was pregnant. I wish they had told me earlier.

I don't think I can ever think of my sister as my mom and I will always think of my grandparents as mom and dad.

Thanks for reading. Not sure why I posted this but you guys and my girlfriend are the first people I have told. Its gonna be really weird telling all my friends. When I build up the strength I am going to ask my sister about my dad. I guess alot of people never knew there dad but I always thought I did so it is pretty crazy to realize half my genes come from some random dude that shot himself.



Edit (fixed typo on age when I got 64)

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This thread is worthless without pics.

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Maybe Auntie Agatha can help you...

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She got me a nintendo 64 for christmas which was awesome when I was 5 or whatever.

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I am 23

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Oh so you got the N64 7 years before it was released, and a year before the SNES was released? That's pretty cool. Your sister/mom must have pretty sweet connections.

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I want to try and make a joke here, but I dunno, it doesn't seem right

Quality A+ beat

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She got me a nintendo 64 for christmas which was awesome when I was 5 or whatever.

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I am 23

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Oh so you got the N64 7 years before it was released, and a year before the SNES was released? That's pretty cool. Your sister/mom must have pretty sweet connections.

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Typo, ment 15. Sorry.

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When I build up the strength I am going to ask my sister about my dad.

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he sounds like a stand up guy

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She got me a nintendo 64 for christmas which was awesome when I was 5 or whatever.

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I am 23

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Oh so you got the N64 7 years before it was released, and a year before the SNES was released? That's pretty cool. Your sister/mom must have pretty sweet connections.

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this is a pretty good point.

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Maybe Auntie Agatha can help you...

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I guess things could be worse lol, thanks for that.

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Not sure why I posted this but you guys and my girlfriend are the first people I have told.

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you came to the right place!

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but srsly interesting post

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When I build up the strength I am going to ask my sister about my dad.

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he sounds like a stand up guy

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Yeah I guess he sucks but he is a pretty abstract concept to me so I can't really hate him yet.

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Maybe Auntie Agatha can help you...

[/ QUOTE ]good god damn wtf that link? i wonder if he boned her?

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Jack Nicholson was in this same situation. It is not a big deal. Grandparent is just a word. They have raised you 100%. They are your parents.

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Maybe Auntie Agatha can help you...

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guy finds out his gf is acually his sister:
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Your sentiment shows you don’t love her as much as you think. If you did, your concern would have been for her, not what your friends would think of the change in your relationship. It only goes to prove that God deliberately brought you both together to correct the wrong done the innocent girl by your father. If you have been more matured and listened to the voice of God, you would have known the relationship was not meant to be romantic, but to mend a broken family.

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When I build up the strength I am going to ask my sister about my dad.

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he sounds like a stand up guy

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Yeah I guess he sucks but he is a pretty abstract concept to me so I can't really hate him yet.

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If he was 16-17 at the time, I think it's tough to pass judgement on him.

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Jack Nicholson was in this same situation. It is not a big deal. Grandparent is just a word. They have raised you 100%. They are your parents.

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And remember to be thankful for their efforts. Not easy to raise kids when you're older.


Good story, hope to all works out straight for you.

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Jack Nicholson was in this same situation. It is not a big deal. Grandparent is just a word. They have raised you 100%. They are your parents.

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Wow. Just looked it up on wiki. I feel the same way. I guess I wish I acted better in front of my mom when she told me but I will tell her that for sure soon.

I am glad they told me, wiki said jacks parents died before he knew.

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pics of said sistermom?

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When I build up the strength I am going to ask my sister about my dad.

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he sounds like a stand up guy

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Yeah I guess he sucks but he is a pretty abstract concept to me so I can't really hate him yet.

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If he was 16-17 at the time, I think it's tough to pass judgement on him.

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Jack Nicholson was in this same situation. It is not a big deal. Grandparent is just a word. They have raised you 100%. They are your parents.

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And remember to be thankful for their efforts. Not easy to raise kids when you're older.


Good story, hope to all works out straight for you.

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mid-30's is older?

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When I build up the strength I am going to ask my sister about my dad.

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he sounds like a stand up guy

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Yeah I guess he sucks but he is a pretty abstract concept to me so I can't really hate him yet.

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If he was 16-17 at the time, I think it's tough to pass judgement on him.

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True. I remeber when I was in high school a kid in my grade killed himself. I knew who he was but we weren't really friends or anything. I think we had a class or two together. I remeber my mom crying when I told her and thinking it was really weird since she never met the kid, I guess it makes more sense now.

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Jack Nicholson was in this same situation. It is not a big deal. Grandparent is just a word. They have raised you 100%. They are your parents.

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And remember to be thankful for their efforts. Not easy to raise kids when you're older.


Good story, hope to all works out straight for you.

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mid-30's is older?

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I guess I grew up in a white trash area (i guess that might be obvious) but most of my friends parents where in their early to lmid 20s when they had their kida and stopped having them when they realized how expensive they were.

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Max, ignore all the retard replies. Who your 'parents' are is more about emotional relationships than genetics. We had a similar situation in my family with my sister (who was raised by my grandparents)and most folks don't know she's my sister and not my aunt. She too, never knew her bio Dad and it ate her up for a long time, but eventually she realized she was pretty lucky in how and where she was raised, since my Mom was very young and really poor. I grew up in the housing projects on welfare and whatnot and she grew up in a nice house in rural Mass. None of it has anything to do with you, it sounds like your folks made good decisions and you turned out better for it. Your sister (Mom) probably has guilt issues (my Mom will never get over hers), but there's not much you can do about that, except tell her you're not mad at her (if you aren't). In many ways this isn't a beat, just variance.

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interesting read, hope all works out for you max

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Jack Nicholson was in this same situation. It is not a big deal. Grandparent is just a word. They have raised you 100%. They are your parents.

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And remember to be thankful for their efforts. Not easy to raise kids when you're older.


Good story, hope to all works out straight for you.

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mid-30's is older?

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I guess I grew up in a white trash area (i guess that might be obvious) but most of my friends parents where in their early to lmid 20s when they had their kida and stopped having them when they realized how expensive they were.

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I guess it's just where you're from. I'm 31 and I'm one of the younger parents I know.

Hope everything works out for you, OP.

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Max, ignore all the retard replies. Who your 'parents' are is more about emotional relationships than genetics. We had a similar situation in my family with my sister (who was raised by my grandparents)and most folks don't know she's my sister and not my aunt. She too, never knew her bio Dad and it ate her up for a long time, but eventually she realized she was pretty lucky in how and where she was raised, since my Mom was very young and really poor. I grew up in the housing projects on welfare and whatnot and she grew up in a nice house in rural Mass. None of it has anything to do with you, it sounds like your folks made good decisions and you turned out better for it. Your sister (Mom) probably has guilt issues (my Mom will never get over hers), but there's not much you can do about that, except tell her you're not mad at her (if you aren't). In many ways this isn't a beat, just variance.

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Max, ignore all the retard replies. Who your 'parents' are is more about emotional relationships than genetics. We had a similar situation in my family with my sister (who was raised by my grandparents)and most folks don't know she's my sister and not my aunt. She too, never knew her bio Dad and it ate her up for a long time, but eventually she realized she was pretty lucky in how and where she was raised, since my Mom was very young and really poor. I grew up in the housing projects on welfare and whatnot and she grew up in a nice house in rural Mass. None of it has anything to do with you, it sounds like your folks made good decisions and you turned out better for it. Your sister (Mom) probably has guilt issues (my Mom will never get over hers), but there's not much you can do about that, except tell her you're not mad at her (if you aren't). In many ways this isn't a beat, just variance.

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Thanks for the post. I feel like given the hand that I was dealt I had a very good childhood. Most of my friends only had a mom so I was really lucky to have a mom and a dad. I really have no ill will towards my sister. I really have not been super close to my parents or sister since I went to college. I help them out financially if they need it and I still will of course. I have had almost no relationship with my sister for a while, she has a steady boyfriend who seems like a good guy. I think she probably didn't want to get very close to me but maybe she will now?

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[x] wins the alltime beat award, can anyone really top this?

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Jack Nicholson was in this same situation. It is not a big deal. Grandparent is just a word. They have raised you 100%. They are your parents.

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And remember to be thankful for their efforts. Not easy to raise kids when you're older.


Good story, hope to all works out straight for you.

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mid-30's is older?

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I guess I grew up in a white trash area (i guess that might be obvious) but most of my friends parents where in their early to lmid 20s when they had their kida and stopped having them when they realized how expensive they were.

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I guess it's just where you're from. I'm 31 and I'm one of the younger parents I know.

Hope everything works out for you, OP.

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Probably a time thing also. I think people have kids later now then 20 years ago. I am 23 and am not even close to wanting a kid yet.

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Wow, what a mind [censored]...

A+ beat. Would read your beats again.

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The people who raised you are your parents. Of course, its going to be a weird adjustment for a while, but they did this with your welfare in mind at the time. Sounds like they stepped up big time to me.

FWIW, I can't really say much about the Dad thing. Before you start hating, you need to remember that it sounds like he was very young and made a horrible decision that was unfortunately unreversable. It doesn't mean he was a horrible person or would have been a bad father, it just means he made a terrible decision, the implications of which I doubt most 16-17 year olds could entirely understand.

Good Luck.

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[x] wins the alltime beat award, can anyone really top this?

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The beat would have been being raised by a 16 year old mother after father committed suicide.

Nice suck out, OP.

Seriously, though, it sounds like this turned out for the best.

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[*] Thread is real

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brag: I made my sister a mom.

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i love you son

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i love you son

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i love you son

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yes,, you suck

hah his other post was deleted already

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yes,, you suck

hah his other post was deleted already



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and the big sleazy was banned too. what could this mean?!

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A+++++++++++++++++++++++++ Would read again..

The situation sucks...but at least your family tried to do the best for you.... Thats a massive positive...

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Don't worry this won't mess you up at all.

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To avoid social stigma, Bundy's grandparents claimed him as their son, giving him their last name; he grew up believing his mother to be his older sister.

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ted_bundy