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Sometimes it just isnt worth it. Tonight I had a guy steal a girl straight out of me. I was talking and flirting all ngihtl, we were playing beer pong, and he came up and straight up stole her. Started leaning on her, putting his hands all over her, and sweet talking her right in front o f me. I was 2 seconds from sending him to the ER. Why didn’t I?

It wasn’t about the girl. It was about the principle. It wasn’t about the kiss. It was about the hug. It was about the fact that he spit in my face. Rubbed dirt on my name. Any other [censored] saying you want to use is accepltable. Point being, most everyone I know would have taken it to the next level had something like that happened.

So I didn’t. I’m a pussy. Seven years of wrestling (including beating state placers senior year before season ending surgery), a near 300 pound bench press, rudimentary jiu-jitsu and the fury and drive to destroy anything, ANYTHING, that coems in my path. His bony shoulders and popped collar didn’t stand a chance. I should have opened up.

But no. I stood back. It was fine. My hand is bleeding right now, not from him, but from a fence that I put it through. Why? Because I wanted to relieve the stress without hurting anyone. I didn’t want to go to jail. I didn’t want to send him to the ER. I wanted to be the bigger man. Was it ok? I dunno, I am 19, stupid, and have, honestly, too much physical power to control. It wasn’t my territory. It was an attempt at fate.

Any thoughts would be great. As it relates life, beliefs, general thoughts, and also to poker and pot control. I just need a few more thoughts on this one.

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I dunno. I find that if a chick who seems keen turns out to be so disinterested that she will go for some other random guy that just walks up, I prefer not to be with her. Maybe that's just me tho.

Having said that, a black eye for the other guy would be kinda karmicly balancing imo (tho I still wouldn't want the chick).

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she is probably a [censored], forget about it.

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why would you want to hurt the guy who came and "stole" "your" girl? she wasn't your property.

You have every right to be pissed off, though. If this guy was your friend, he totally dissed you. But when it comes down to it, nothing he did would ever, EVER, merit violence.

Next time that happens, you should choose not to hit him just because you're a pussy, or because you don't want to go to jail, or because you don't want anyone to get hurt. You should choose not to hit him primarily because it's unethical. he did nothing to invade your life, liberty, or property. He simply acted like a total prick.

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Why on earth do you think that having the self-control and decency to refrain from instigating physical violence makes you a "pussy"? The weak way out would have been to lose it and smash his face in because you could. Perhaps it's simply a case of you being a decent guy, rather than a mindless thug.

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OP,

You seem a little emotional. Maybe you should try writing poetry. You could include details about your wrestling days, and tons of metaphors for someone else disrespecting you.

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Id let it go mainly because if the girl was truly into you for being you then she wouldnt have left. also i think fighting over a girl is one of the pussiest things you can do. Self control is much more manly then fighting.

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why would you want to hurt the guy who came and "stole" "your" girl? she wasn't your property.

You have every right to be pissed off, though. If this guy was your friend, he totally dissed you. But when it comes down to it, nothing he did would ever, EVER, merit violence.

Next time that happens, you should choose not to hit him just because you're a pussy, or because you don't want to go to jail, or because you don't want anyone to get hurt. You should choose not to hit him primarily because it's unethical. he did nothing to invade your life, liberty, or property. He simply acted like a total prick.

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Cool, you said it for me.

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Seven years of wrestling

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OP- Sounds like you'd be more interested in the dudes at the party...

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Op,

Did you ever check your opponents oil?

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lol @ mandatory mspaint

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HEY DRINKING IS ILLEGAL YOURE ONLY 19. FEDS HAVE BEEN NOTIFIED.

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I dunno, I am 19, stupid, and have, honestly, too much physical power to control.

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have you considered joining WWE?

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Op,

Did you ever check your opponents oil?



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I think he wanted to go 5 on 2 with the villain

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ANGER MANAGEMENT

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...Seven years of wrestling (including beating state placers senior year before season ending surgery), a near 300 pound bench press, rudimentary jiu-jitsu and the fury and drive to destroy anything, ANYTHING, that coems in my path. His bony shoulders and popped collar didn’t stand a chance. I should have opened up...

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Sup bro?

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Those MS paints are incredible

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why would you want to hurt the guy who came and "stole" "your" girl? she wasn't your property.

You have every right to be pissed off, though. If this guy was your friend, he totally dissed you. But when it comes down to it, nothing he did would ever, EVER, merit violence.

Next time that happens, you should choose not to hit him just because you're a pussy, or because you don't want to go to jail, or because you don't want anyone to get hurt. You should choose not to hit him primarily because it's unethical. he did nothing to invade your life, liberty, or property. He simply acted like a total prick.

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Yep. Violence often feels like exactly the right thing to do, but it almost never is. Definitely not in a situation as laid back as this.

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well played, nh.

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...Seven years of wrestling (including beating state placers senior year before season ending surgery), a near 300 pound bench press, rudimentary jiu-jitsu and the fury and drive to destroy anything, ANYTHING, that coems in my path. His bony shoulders and popped collar didn’t stand a chance. I should have opened up...

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Sup bro?

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That's exactly what I thought when reading this post...Only difference is, Sup Bro isn't a pussy.

Also, kkcountry...A++. Pure gold.

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OP the reason you didnt hit him is you ARE a PUSSY. Not because you are 'a bigger man'. If you were 'a bigger man' demonstrated this with a quick jab, at the very least. Real world fighting is alot different than your WWF bs and deep down you know that and were afraid of getting your ass kicked, in front of that chick. No wonder the chick was more interested in the other guy....you were most likely giving off some pussy pheramones and she sensed it and that's game over.
If you want to start getting some pussy and not being a pussy youre gonna have to take a long hard look at yourself. Btw, try not to jerk off while doing this.

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OP the reason you didnt hit him is you ARE a PUSSY. Not because you are 'a bigger man'. If you were 'a bigger man' demonstrated this with a quick jab, at the very least. Real world fighting is alot different than your WWF bs and deep down you know that and were afraid of getting your ass kicked, in front of that chick. No wonder the chick was more interested in the other guy....you were most likely giving off some pussy pheramones and she sensed it and that's game over.

PATHETIC

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well played, nh.

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more like bleeding hand.

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OP. You definatly are a pussy.

The other dude is hitting the girl, you are hittin OOT with a sore hand.

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Eff the haters. You would probably feel better if you didn't hit that fence though. Next time try a homeless person.

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Eff the haters. You would probably feel better if you didn't hit that fence though. Next time try a rich white person.

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Hahaha that girl could have been your wife man.

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OP, just be glad it wasn't the girl of your dreams that was stolen. That was a fun thread.

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OP please go get some counseling. These are not normal feelings to have, and most people don't need to punch fences afterwards.

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I dunno, I am 19, stupid, and have, honestly, too much physical power to control.

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I recognize this guy.... he's from a thread on bodybuilding.com - dude asked if he had potential and guys were making hilarious MS Paint pics about him for months, it was pretty awesome.

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Sometimes it just isnt worth it. Tonight I had a guy steal a girl straight out of me. I was talking and flirting all ngihtl, we were playing beer pong, and he came up and straight up stole her. Started leaning on her, putting his hands all over her, and sweet talking her right in front o f me.

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I hope you don't hunt me down or anything...

but a lot of times when I go out, my girlfriend goes off and flirts with other guys. I told her to do this a long time ago, because it lets us both have fun with other people without anything actually happening. Then when we're ready to go I'll take her home and eff her. Whether I just pull her away right in front of him or give her time to let him down easy depends on how much of a douche I think he is.

She does the opposite though. If I'm flirting with a girl, she'll come and steal the chick away from me instead of me away from the chick. She's a lot better than me at picking up chicks.

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I dunno, I am 19, stupid, and have, honestly, too much physical power to control.

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http://img339.imageshack.us/img339/5...ialtestyq5.jpg

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I recognize this guy.... he's from a thread on bodybuilding.com - dude asked if he had potential and guys were making hilarious MS Paint pics about him for months, it was pretty awesome.

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OMG NO WAIIII

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Sometimes it just isnt worth it. Tonight I had a guy steal a girl straight out of me. I was talking and flirting all ngihtl, we were playing beer pong, and he came up and straight up stole her. Started leaning on her, putting his hands all over her, and sweet talking her right in front o f me. I was 2 seconds from sending him to the ER. Why didn’t I?

It wasn’t about the girl. It was about the principle. It wasn’t about the kiss. It was about the hug. It was about the fact that he spit in my face. Rubbed dirt on my name. Any other [censored] saying you want to use is accepltable. Point being, most everyone I know would have taken it to the next level had something like that happened.

So I didn’t. I’m a pussy. Seven years of wrestling (including beating state placers senior year before season ending surgery), a near 300 pound bench press, rudimentary jiu-jitsu and the fury and drive to destroy anything, ANYTHING, that coems in my path. His bony shoulders and popped collar didn’t stand a chance. I should have opened up.

But no. I stood back. It was fine. My hand is bleeding right now, not from him, but from a fence that I put it through. Why? Because I wanted to relieve the stress without hurting anyone. I didn’t want to go to jail. I didn’t want to send him to the ER. I wanted to be the bigger man. Was it ok? I dunno, I am 19, stupid, and have, honestly, too much physical power to control. It wasn’t my territory. It was an attempt at fate.

Any thoughts would be great. As it relates life, beliefs, general thoughts, and also to poker and pot control. I just need a few more thoughts on this one.

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If a guy walks up and straight up steals the girl you've been hitting on all nite, then she was looking for something better to come along all along. The other guy isn't the problem. Good for him to come in and find someone and she's probably happier, too. Don't blame the other guy if a chick doesn't choose you. Work on being a better person or choosing better women. To start a fight would make you a total d-bag.

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If a guy walks up and straight up steals the girl you've been hitting on all nite, then she was looking for something better to come along all along. The other guy isn't the problem. Good for him to come in and find someone and she's probably happier, too. Don't blame the other guy if a chick doesn't choose you. Work on being a better person or choosing better women. To start a fight would make you a total d-bag.

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This is true i mean it's not like he came in your bedroom and goes Indiana Jones on you, switching her with a sack of rocks while you obliviously hump away and his friend videos it and puts it on youtube

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