best friend drunkenly slaps me in front of new girlfriend...
 

Monday night I went out to meet a couple friends for some drinks at random club. I brought my new girlfriend to meet them(we've been together about a month so we're still pretty new). We get there first, I buy a couple beers and we sit and wait for my friends to arrive. They show up, one is obviously pretty [censored] up and I introduce them to my girl. A couple moments later my buddy full-force slaps Rick James style me across the face because he's an idiot and I am speechless. What was the proper course of action now that my new GF thinks I'm a punk beeeyatch.

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Punch him in the stomach then call a cab and pay for it to get him home.

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Because your buddy drunkenly slapped you? Who cares? You're friends and he was drunk. Laugh it off.

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More info on friend, relationship with him, and pics of girlfriend pls.

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Quality post, LFS.

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Was it an obvious joke? Or was he showing the new girl that he's the man? If joke it shouldn't be a big deal, though a little strange. If not beat him with a sock full of quarters (in front of your GF and his mom)

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If he's drunk enough to slap you, he's drunk enough to take a well-deserved punch and not wake up in the morning all sore about it.

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Shes pretty hot. I was compeltely sober, and were pretty new so I was embarassed. Normally I'd laugh something like this off.


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I would be more concerned with my friend hitting me than with what my new girlfriend thought of it.

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Did your gf act strangely/differently after the incident?

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The strap-on came out for the first time that night, does that count?

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billy batts him

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Move to another city, and start over. There's no recovering from this.

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Yea she was like "why didnt you hit him back?" and trying to explain myself and my friends actions I just felt like even more of a tool. I ended up letting it go and then just talking to him after it happened.

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I don't like those thumbnails that imageshack generates. Here:

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Get used to that look of disdain.

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Both are worthy of consideration.

But not hitting him back, if you can still maintain your cool, is probably a better indicator of what you're really made of than macho'ing it up in response. If he goes for a second swing, of course, cream him.

After he sobers up, maybe the next day, in private so he doesn't feel any pressure to clown it up and be a douchebag for the crowd, tell him anyone can make a mistake. "A" mistake, as in, one. Tell him the next time it happens, you're going to know it's not coming from a friend anymore, and will act accordingly. And will remember that you owe him one already.

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Yea she was like "why didnt you hit him back?" and trying to explain myself and my friends actions I just felt like even more of a tool. I ended up letting it go and then just talking to him after it happened.

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That's bad news because she isn't the type that hates violence. Next time she lets you säcks her, you should give it all you've got or she'll be out the door pretty soon.

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I don't like those thumbnails that imageshack generates. Here:

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thats a man, baby!

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what would you do if the new gf wasn't there? do that.

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I would be more afraid of the tranny hitting you.

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el d, quids,

Please step up and school the op about the combined use of a broken toothbrush and a jabbing motion.

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Eegs - That's super messed up that your friend did that. IMO you don't do stupid shyte like this to your friends when their kids or significant other is in the area. Hitting him back doesn't really make you look better but I don't see what other option you have.

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here's a couple more...

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LOL. [img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img]

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wow, your friend sucks. get new friends?

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Damn dude. sweet gf.

FFK - wouldn't you be concerned that your new bf just got AMOG'd by his buddy?

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trying to explain myself and my friends actions I just felt like even more of a tool.

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What more is there to explain than "he's really drunk"? While he sucks for hitting you, if this explanation isn't enough for her, then she sucks more.

-McGee

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AMOG?

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your trannyfriend was probably upset because it has bigger balls than you


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This is when I sound like a nit, but if one of my friends drunkenly slapped me, I'd rather be with a girl who was happy that I could laugh it off rather than knee jerk into hitting him back.

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AMOG?

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AMOG

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This is when I sound like a nit, but if one of my friends drunkenly slapped me, I'd rather be with a girl who was happy that I could laugh it off rather than knee jerk into hitting him back.

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Word

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After thinking some more about your unfortunate situation I think the proper response is to laugh it off and then later on go over to your "friend's" house and humble him, old country style.

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dids, dudeabides - you guys sound like pussies.

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You know what they say - you are what you eat...

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Monday night I went out to meet a couple friends for some drinks at random club. I brought my new girlfriend to meet them(we've been together about a month so we're still pretty new). We get there first, I buy a couple beers and we sit and wait for my friends to arrive. They show up, one is obviously pretty [censored] up and I introduce them to my girl. A couple moments later my buddy full-force slaps Rick James style me across the face because he's an idiot and I am speechless. What was the proper course of action now that my new GF thinks I'm a punk beeeyatch.

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Laugh it off and call him a douche.

If he's really hammered, while he's not paying attention, grab his drink, slide it below the bar, squeeze off a stream of piss in his bottle/glass and put it back on the bar.

Point this out to him after the drink is gone.

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It would be an enormous turn-off if I were the girl in the situation and my boyfriend actually hit the guy back. Violence is completely unnecessary and one of the biggest turn-offs (next to inability to handle alcohol). Someone who could shake it off and act like an adult would be much more attractive for it.

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Brand new GF asking if you are gonna hit him back is out of line on her part. If this is a really good friend, just laugh it off.

Also is she a "sista"...could explain her attitude.