my friend\'s wife is a dominatrix
 

does she have sex for money? seriously i'm completely clueless.

she's very open about waht she does, including making bulletins on myspace for her workplace, and posts dom pics on her myspace page as well. he's a very weird cat too. i went to the site and this was their description:

The Mistresses of XXXXXXX are multicultural and multilingual, skilled in all areas of BD/SM fetish role-play: Dominant, Switch and submissive... from sensual to severe. Both in-calls and out-calls. Experienced in the entire spectrum of BD/SM fantasy and role-play, The LSDS Mistresses create a spider's web of scenarios that fuel the imagination. If you've ever had a hidden desire to experience the pleasures that inspire so many of the artists and writers We all greatly admire, then you should pay a visit to the Mistresses of XXXXXXX.

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I know somebody who was a dominatrix in SF. She says she did not ever have sex with anyone and it was very lucrative. She is, of course, absolutely batshit insane in every way, quite literally.

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how do you make this thread without pics?

also i was talking to a chick once who was a dominatrix. she said all her clients were high powere lawyers, ceos, etc in LA who all came in to get the crap dominated out of them. she made serious bank. she didn't have sex with them.

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does she have sex for money?......

she's very open about waht she does......

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Ask her? Plus TR, plz. Pics would be nice.

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Known a few women who did this professionally. They didn't have sex with clients as a rule of thumb, but I'll bet some still did on occasion.

I knew one from CA who actually married a John and took him for a nice chunk in a divorce settlement without ever putting out to the man though. She was a bitch.

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http://www.eros-ny.com/files/ny-trm1-agency1.htm

NSFW obviously

Feel free to remove the link, although Google is not rocket science.

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No, she doesn't. If she did, she wouldn't be a dominatrix. Why would she want to sleep with miserable little worms who cower at her feet, and why would the submissives who visit her want that, either? They want to be taken to "sub-space", to worship or be punished by a powerful woman, to be stripped of their masculinity. It's quite, quite different from wanting to get laid.

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how do you make this thread without pics?

also i was talking to a chick once who was a dominatrix. she said all her clients were high powere lawyers, ceos, etc in LA who all came in to get the crap dominated out of them. she made serious bank. she didn't have sex with them.

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my bad

http://www.mccullagh.org/db9/1ds-3/d...ith-paddle.jpg

so they just beat the hell out of the guys? i mean this is supposed to be sexually arousing to them, so do they at least get to beat it?

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Let's just say I personally know that a lot of women like to be dominated/"beat on", so I am assuming the same applies to men. And one of the earlier posters was correct in that it is typically people who are in positions of power that like to be dominated. Pros would probably never have sex with clients because (1) they don't need to to make $$$, (2) see (1) [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img], (3) legal implications, (4) cleanliness/disease/etc, (5) see (1).

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Someone my wife knew from college spent a couple of years as a professional dominatrix, and as far as I know, there was no sex with clients.

On a similar topic, another friend of the wife's is a fetish photographer... she takes professional pictures of porn stars, dominatrixes, etc. And she's bi. I can't help but wonder if some of the photo sessions devolve into Cinemax-style girl-on-girl lovefests.

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List of employees NSFW site

link

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I can't believe people are into this sh... I mean seriously. Why would you want some chick to beat you up, and then you don't even get to fu.. her.

Idiots.

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is this really her

http://www.mccullagh.org/db9/1ds-3/b...minatrix-3.jpg

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I can't believe people are into this sh... I mean seriously. Why would you want some chick to beat you up, and then you don't even get to fu.. her.

Idiots.

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I could not have said it better.

It just seems wierd

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If there's no sex then why do they wear such skimpy outfits?

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and then you don't even get to fu.. her.

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If there's no sex then why do they wear such skimpy outfits?


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fantasy? the mind is the most powerful erogenous zone.

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and then you don't even get to fu.. her.

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If there's no sex then why do they wear such skimpy outfits?


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fantasy? the mind is the most powerful erogenous zone.

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QFT. To each his/her own.

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I can't believe people are into this sh... I mean seriously. Why would you want some chick to beat you up, and then you don't even get to fu.. her.

Idiots.

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OP, and all:

PSA, too:

I worked with a guy who was into this [censored], except I'm pretty sure he only did the dom side. I can vouch for this, however: it is a sub culture and a society to itself. These people get together for conventions, parties, huge play time get togethers, and all kinds of things. It's something that a lot of people do 24/7.

Meh, I'm not interested in it to that degree, but to each his own. Obviously there's (x) amount of either dom/sub in each of us, and for some people it's strictly what gets them off/turned on, etc.

Tbh, from my limited view from the outside looking in to that culture, they're sort of like friendly family types who just engage in very rough play, but there is no prostitution and for the most part cleanliness and safety are extremely important to these guys.

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I knew one from CA who actually married a John and took him for a nice chunk in a divorce settlement without ever putting out to the man though.

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But I bet when he masturbated he shot right through the roof. This sounds like exactly what he was after!

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The WEIRDEST thing of all is guys into financial domination. They get off on giving all their money to some horrible woman over the Internet. Frankly they'd be better off getting into poker. Check out this guy, for instance, who handed over $50,000:

http://www.bitchybeauty.com/deryckbinger.html

Here's his SFW personal webpage - he seems to have got his life back together, at least:

http://www.deryckthake.com/about-me

But WTF was he thinking? By the sound of it he was suicidally depressed and this was the closest he could get to actually killing himself.

But 99.999% of sub/domme relationships are nothing like that.

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i'm very upset with you for the first link you posted before you edited.
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i'm very upset with you for the first link you posted before you edited.
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Edit again: yes, sorry - just saw it myself for the first time, & like all the stuff on that site it's in very bad taste. So I deleted it!