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How old were you the last time you had sex with a virgin?

Note: I don't care how old she (or he for the 5 girls here) was, only how old you were.

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In college. Not sure if she was a virgin by choice. Now let me go puke in a trash can. thanks for the [censored] awful memories.

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What are your general thoughts on virgins? It seems like some girls think guy's like it if they are but I (and I think a lot of people) think its more of a pain in the ass (pun only partially intended) than anything else. The only really attractive thing about it is that I can be a little more confident I won't end up with herpes.

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You forgot the "never had sex at all" option.

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What are you general thoughts on virgins? It seems like some girls think guy's like it if they are but I (and I think a lot of people) think its more of a pain in the ass (pun only partially intended) than anything else. The only really attractive thing about it is that I can be a little more confident I won't end up with herpes.

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I think guys definitely get off on the thought "From now until the day this girl dies, whenever she thinks about the first time she had sex it will be me. She can have sex with a million guys or become a nun, but nothing can change the fact that i was the first."

its like a running a marathon. nobody enjoys it, and its not that fun while your're doing it, but in the end there is a sense of accomplishment.



my friend recently dated a hot virgin and they had sex and since it was his girlfriend, he was like "i never thought i'd say this, but i wish she had had sex before me, because i have to take it supereasy and she's not very good."

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You forgot the "never had sex at all" option.

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We don't care about them.

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You forgot the "never had sex at all" option.

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We don't care about them.

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True, but now they're going to scew the poll with their lies of having sex with virgins at the age of 26.

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You forgot the "never had sex at all" option.

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I just figured they could vote under the "never had sex with a virgin" option. I think the last thing we need is another case study on how many people here aren't having sex. Besides, I think Bruiser got them all together and taught them how to be PUA's.

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What are you general thoughts on virgins? It seems like some girls think guy's like it if they are but I (and I think a lot of people) think its more of a pain in the ass (pun only partially intended) than anything else. The only really attractive thing about it is that I can be a little more confident I won't end up with herpes.

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I think guys definitely get off on the thought "From now until the day this girl dies, whenever she thinks about the first time she had sex it will be me. She can have sex with a million guys or become a nun, but nothing can change the fact that i was the first."

its like a running a marathon. nobody enjoys it, and its not that fun while your're doing it, but in the end there is a sense of accomplishment.



my friend recently dated a hot virgin and they had sex and since it was his girlfriend, he was like "i never thought i'd say this, but i wish she had had sex before me, because i have to take it supereasy and she's not very good."

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Maybe I'm weird, but the whole "she'll always remember me as her first time" doesn't really do it for me. My thoughts go something like this:

1) She's more likely than average to form a strong emotional attachment to me (never been actually interested in dating or having a real relationship with either of my two)
2) She's probably not going to be very good (true one time, not true another time)
3) This could be messy (not true either time)


Things like knowing she's clean and having that first time memory rank significantly lower for me. I'm kind of curious how I'd feel about it if it were a girl I was dating or was interested in dating. I definitely understand where your friend is coming from.

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sex with a virgin sucks. Guys who want to end up with a virgin are also pretty insecure IMO. I dont buy any of that crap about him being her only one makes it special. It just means he cant handle the thought of her having had some other dick and comparing it to how little his is and how bad he is at it. Gimmie some chick whos been around the block so that when she settles on my boring ass I know its cuz Im the one and she isnt going to always be wondering about all she missed out on.

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sex with a virgin sucks. Guys who want to end up with a virgin are also pretty insecure IMO. I dont buy any of that crap about him being her only one makes it special. It just means he cant handle the thought of her having had some other dick and comparing it to how little his is and how bad he is at it. Gimmie some chick whos been around the block so that when she settles on my boring ass I know its cuz Im the one and she isnt going to always be wondering about all she missed out on.

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Say you are 25 and meet the woman of your dreams. You say you don't want a virgin (I'm assuming virginity wouldn't be a bar, but still), what is the upper threshold before it affects the way you think of her?

Is there a cutoff point where you think, that is waay too many?

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Only vigin was my first when we were 14. I'd rather have an experienced girl so that might skew my nunvers

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I picked up an american when I was in Spain. She claimed she was a virgin. I didn't believe her. There was a spot of blood on the hotel sheets the next morning.

Not nasty funky chunky period blood either.

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sex with a virgin sucks. Guys who want to end up with a virgin are also pretty insecure IMO. I dont buy any of that crap about him being her only one makes it special. It just means he cant handle the thought of her having had some other dick and comparing it to how little his is and how bad he is at it. Gimmie some chick whos been around the block so that when she settles on my boring ass I know its cuz Im the one and she isnt going to always be wondering about all she missed out on.

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Say you are 25 and meet the woman of your dreams. You say you don't want a virgin (I'm assuming virginity wouldn't be a bar, but still), what is the upper threshold before it affects the way you think of her?

Is there a cutoff point where you think, that is waay too many?

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Very good point. I agree with Alobar's point about sex with virgins being overrated, but I also agree that there is a point at which I'd be disgusted by a girl if she had sex with more guys than what I would consider normal.

For example, would you consider getting serious with a 24 year old who admits to having had sex with over 35 different guys in her life? I wouldn't.

If you want to talk about numbers, I think the absolute limit for a "nice girl" that I'd consider seriously getting involved with would be about 1.5 to 2 different guys per year, starting at age 18. And this would only apply to girls who have yet to have a very serious, long term relationship. in other words, if I met a 30 year old who told me she had had, over the course of her life, 3 very serious relationships, each of which lasted for 2+ years, but that she has also in total had sex with 25 different men in her life, there would be a problem there.

I just wouldnt want to date or marry someone who gives it up that easily.

But I agree about the virgin being overrated thing. Who cares if she's a virgin? She's likely to be horrible in bed, plus you then have to deal with the fact that it is so "meaningful" to her, and all that crap.

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Alobar is correct, sex with a virgin is a tough process. It requires alot of time, care, and practice. Especially if said virgin is not a teenager.

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sex with a virgin sucks. Guys who want to end up with a virgin are also pretty insecure IMO. I dont buy any of that crap about him being her only one makes it special. It just means he cant handle the thought of her having had some other dick and comparing it to how little his is and how bad he is at it. Gimmie some chick whos been around the block so that when she settles on my boring ass I know its cuz Im the one and she isnt going to always be wondering about all she missed out on.

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Say you are 25 and meet the woman of your dreams. You say you don't want a virgin (I'm assuming virginity wouldn't be a bar, but still), what is the upper threshold before it affects the way you think of her?

Is there a cutoff point where you think, that is waay too many?

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Very good point. I agree with Alobar's point about sex with virgins being overrated, but I also agree that there is a point at which I'd be disgusted by a girl if she had sex with more guys than what I would consider normal.

For example, would you consider getting serious with a 24 year old who admits to having had sex with over 35 different guys in her life? I wouldn't.

If you want to talk about numbers, I think the absolute limit for a "nice girl" that I'd consider seriously getting involved with would be about 1.5 to 2 different guys per year, starting at age 18. And this would only apply to girls who have yet to have a very serious, long term relationship. in other words, if I met a 30 year old who told me she had had, over the course of her life, 3 very serious relationships, each of which lasted for 2+ years, but that she has also in total had sex with 25 different men in her life, there would be a problem there.

I just wouldnt want to date or marry someone who gives it up that easily.

But I agree about the virgin being overrated thing. Who cares if she's a virgin? She's likely to be horrible in bed, plus you then have to deal with the fact that it is so "meaningful" to her, and all that crap.

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A woman who has 2 partners a year from 18-30 would sleep with 24 men. What's the differnce? 25 random guys or your first example?

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Freshman year of college (where virginities are basically plentiful and for the taking). I've slept with 3 or 4 virgins and it was only decent sex once.

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sex with a virgin sucks. Guys who want to end up with a virgin are also pretty insecure IMO. I dont buy any of that crap about him being her only one makes it special. It just means he cant handle the thought of her having had some other dick and comparing it to how little his is and how bad he is at it. Gimmie some chick whos been around the block so that when she settles on my boring ass I know its cuz Im the one and she isnt going to always be wondering about all she missed out on.

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Say you are 25 and meet the woman of your dreams. You say you don't want a virgin (I'm assuming virginity wouldn't be a bar, but still), what is the upper threshold before it affects the way you think of her?

Is there a cutoff point where you think, that is waay too many?

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Very good point. I agree with Alobar's point about sex with virgins being overrated, but I also agree that there is a point at which I'd be disgusted by a girl if she had sex with more guys than what I would consider normal.

For example, would you consider getting serious with a 24 year old who admits to having had sex with over 35 different guys in her life? I wouldn't.

If you want to talk about numbers, I think the absolute limit for a "nice girl" that I'd consider seriously getting involved with would be about 1.5 to 2 different guys per year, starting at age 18. And this would only apply to girls who have yet to have a very serious, long term relationship. in other words, if I met a 30 year old who told me she had had, over the course of her life, 3 very serious relationships, each of which lasted for 2+ years, but that she has also in total had sex with 25 different men in her life, there would be a problem there.

I just wouldnt want to date or marry someone who gives it up that easily.

But I agree about the virgin being overrated thing. Who cares if she's a virgin? She's likely to be horrible in bed, plus you then have to deal with the fact that it is so "meaningful" to her, and all that crap.

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A woman who has 2 partners a year from 18-30 would sleep with 24 men. What's the differnce? 25 random guys or your first example?

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Not much of a difference, although if I had to pick I'd probably go with the girl who has been in 2 relationships a year that have led to sex, and not had any one night stands. This is less slutty than the girl who has banged 25 guys in her life, all on meaningless one-nighters.

25 guys, regardless of how, would be pushing it for me for any girl 30 or younger. Something like 15-18 seems like a more tolerable but still realistic limit.

I'd never get serious (i.e. potentially marry) a girl who has been with something like 30 men in her life. That is way too much. You don't want your soul mate to be someone who was very easy to nail back in the day.

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It requires alot of time, care, and practice. Especially if said virgin is not a teenager.

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Yeah, once the reach the teens, it's smooth sailing.

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LOL, that's not exactly what I meant, but thanks, this post made my day!

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I messed around with a virgin in college; it sucked. Do not recommend.

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If you have sex with a virgin expect numerous 3 am drunken crying phone calls/voice mails...atleast in my experience that's what happens.

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getting blood on your cox raw dawg is the best thing in the world, not! ive nailed probably 3 or 4 virigins i say that because it should be 4 but two of them i may or may not believe. virgins suck, they are to shy to get into it too much, but i think they are also open to suggestion since they have no idea what is normal and what isnt.

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I had sex with a virgin once. It was the most forgettable sex of my entire life, which is why I can't forget about it. After I managed to finish she started crying. Then she ran into the bathroom and wouldn't come out. I was going to leave but then I remembered that it was my house. Bummer.

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If she hasnt experienced these things yet, then she is innocent and I would feel lucky to observe and enjoy her innocense throughout our relationship. Similarly, I would rather go to Disney World with someone who has never been there.

If you are just looking for a one night stand, then obviously a virgin doesnt make any sense.

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This poll made me realize I've only had sex with sloots. And it's been damn good.

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now a days it seems like it would be pretty hard to find a virgin, good looking one, even in the senior class of a high school.

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adsman, that is hilarious.

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now a days it seems like it would be pretty hard to find a virgin, good looking one, even in the senior class of a high school.

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I'm not going to look up the stats, but I think the percent of virgins in high school has actually increased slightly in recent years (probably because oral sex and going in through the out door isn't considered losing ones virginity.)

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sex with a virgin sucks. Guys who want to end up with a virgin are also pretty insecure IMO. I dont buy any of that crap about him being her only one makes it special. It just means he cant handle the thought of her having had some other dick and comparing it to how little his is and how bad he is at it. Gimmie some chick whos been around the block so that when she settles on my boring ass I know its cuz Im the one and she isnt going to always be wondering about all she missed out on.

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this is a great post, I could not agree more with every word.
-Jason

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will somebody please make this thread NSFW for [censored]'s sake?

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I don't want to be remembered, I want to be forgotten.

http://img81.imageshack.us/img81/896...ostanzazo2.jpg

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It requires alot of time, care, and practice. Especially if said virgin is not a teenager.

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Yeah, once the reach the teens, it's smooth sailing.

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lol

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will somebody please make this thread NSFW for [censored]'s sake?

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wtf

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I got to truthfully check '27' in the poll.
As alluded to by others, it wasn't so amazing. But did get better.

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I'm one of the over 30 crowd, she was a muslim, she thought we were on our way to marriage, maybe not so much.

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I'm one of the over 30 crowd, she was a muslim, she thought we were on our way to marriage, maybe not so much.

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Wow, I assumed all of the over 30 votes were people screwing around. That seems bizarre.

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for my 60th birthday/retirement party my friends picked up an 18yo girl that worked near my house @ a daycare

lets just say all 4 of us had a great time

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for my 60th birthday/retirement party my friends picked up an 18yo girl that worked near my house @ a daycare

lets just say all 4 of us had a great time

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Wow, are you serious?

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for my 60th birthday/retirement party my friends picked up an 18yo girl that worked near my house @ a daycare

lets just say all 4 of us had a great time

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She isn't 18.

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for my 60th birthday/retirement party my friends picked up an 18yo girl that worked near my house @ a daycare

lets just say all 4 of us had a great time

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Wow, are you serious?

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haha, I think that was my second level after 1k posts of trying! sweet!