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Kolo,
does this girl know that you were (are you still?) gay?

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I sort of agree with JereLock. The only downside is that some girls are going to want that "no small talk" buffer zone before they are on the spot. Just because a guy is comfortable with small talk doesn't mean that she is. And if she isn't at first, she might warm up a little bit over time.

Doing JUST a movie seems pointless as you're going to get like 20 minutes of discussion at most throughout the entire night.

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no but knows I read cosmo/vogue and have camp tastes

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Anywhere your van with the blacked-out windows and superpumped sound system looks inconspicuous.

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Do some type of fun activity. I know this isn't very specific, but I'm not exactly what you crazy kids do for fun over there. Definitely don't go out to dinner and definitely don't go to a movie, those are terrible terrible terrible first date ideas.

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Bowling.


Plus this has the advantage you can snap her bare feet with your concealed camera for later.

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i think you should skip the date and take yourself to a psychologist.

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why?

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go to the local pond/lake and feed the ducks

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What I'm saying is that theres no point in dating a girl that you don't click with... and a first date that maximizes social time but is fairly original will be awesome.

What part of the country do you live in? A beach trip, mountain trip, or picnic at the park are also fantastic ideas.

P.S. - lets assume you get thru this... date 2 should definitely be ice skating (especially if she doesn't really know how... increased physicalness = gold)