Re: Intimacy: oral vs. regular sex
 

I voted. no, yes, not applicable.

Re: Intimacy: oral vs. regular sex
 

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Paging one of the three women in all of 2+2dom

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I voted. no, yes, not applicable.

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pretty sure not what he had in mind....

now i can't read this thread any more because i don't want to see remember what her answers correspond to.


ps- someone PM this to gobboboy.

Re: Intimacy: oral vs. regular sex
 

how is it n/a, you don't have a preference?

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how is it n/a, you don't have a preference?

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Maybe she never has relations?

In that case, she might be a virgin and that means gobboboy is probably the reincarnation of Jesus Christ.

Where is your God now?

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how is it n/a, you don't have a preference?

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Maybe she never has relations?

In that case, she might be a virgin and that means gobboboy is probably the reincarnation of Jesus Christ.

Where is your God now?

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Re: Intimacy: oral vs. regular sex
 

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I'm a cunning linguist from way back and I agree with Tuq. Not necessarily b/c I feel like it's that special--I'm up for chowing down at the drop of a hat--but b/c from my experience women tend to think it's more intimate. Paging one of the three women in all of 2+2dom to read that I like going down and PM me.

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fyp


Also, please tell me that your avatar is not a picture of you, because I have a vivid imagination and picturing that goofy little goatee soaked and crusty with vag juice is making me dry heave.

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Nah--it's Bob Odenkirk from Mr. Show.

Re: Intimacy: oral vs. regular sex
 

regular sex is waaaay more intimate for a number of reasons. The foremost being there is penetration, which while maybe just being symbolic is a pretty profound thing when its shared between two people who have an emotional bond.

There is eye contact, looking into someones eyes while you are sharing a connection is much more intimate than holding the back of someones head while they slobber all over your nether region.

You are both actively participating in the gratification of the other person. Its not just you pleasing her, or her pleasing you, you are pleasing each other. Thats much more intimate than one person doing all the work and not getting pleasure themselves (or at leas the same degree of pleasure).


I think people who consider oral sex more intimate (I know a lot of girls who will let you [censored] them, but wont let you go down on them because "that's too personal") are mostly just having sex for the [censored] aspect of it. You can make sex pretty impersonal, and not all that intimate. But if intimacy is actually the goal, I cant even fathom how someone could consider oral a more intimate experience than regular sex.

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regular sex is waaaay more intimate for a number of reasons. The foremost being there is penetration, which while maybe just being symbolic is a pretty profound thing when its shared between two people who have an emotional bond.

There is eye contact, looking into someones eyes while you are sharing a connection is much more intimate than holding the back of someones head while they slobber all over your nether region.

You are both actively participating in the gratification of the other person. Its not just you pleasing her, or her pleasing you, you are pleasing each other. Thats much more intimate than one person doing all the work and not getting pleasure themselves (or at leas the same degree of pleasure).


I think people who consider oral sex more intimate (I know a lot of girls who will let you [censored] them, but wont let you go down on them because "that's too personal") are mostly just having sex for the [censored] aspect of it. You can make sex pretty impersonal, and not all that intimate. But if intimacy is actually the goal, I cant even fathom how someone could consider oral a more intimate experience than regular sex.

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Well put, despite your avatar.

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what is that av from anyways?

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There is eye contact,



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