Re: Girlfriend vs. Random Hooksup (kinda long)
 

do both?

Re: Girlfriend vs. Random Hooksup (kinda long)
 

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Gugel,

most people are genuinely confused that you are not them. they fail to understand this.

do whatever you want - who cares. a good way to waste one's youth is to worry about whether you're wasting your youth.

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You just matured early.

Re: Girlfriend vs. Random Hooksup (kinda long)
 

You'd be an idiot to throw away this relationship for the sake of having a few years of random hookups. You're happy, what's the problem again?

Re: Girlfriend vs. Random Hooksup (kinda long)
 

OP,

Is this the first girl you ever had sex with?

I ask because i have had one good friend, and one guy who was more of an aquaintance, who both went into long term relationships, in college, with the girl they lost their virgintity to.

Both cases resulted in disaster and both admitted that they mistook sex for love and wish they had been more open with dating instead of getting serious real fast.

If you already sex'd up some girls before your current lady, then dont listen to other guys if after 3 years your girl still turns you on and you get along well.

Re: Girlfriend vs. Random Hooksup (kinda long)
 

Guys who bang random [censored] would love to be in your position. They just think it's not cool to admit it.

Re: Girlfriend vs. Random Hooksup (kinda long)
 

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You'd be an idiot to throw away this relationship for the sake of having a few years of random hookups. You're happy, what's the problem again?

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Re: Girlfriend vs. Random Hooksup (kinda long)
 

Its a matter of experience. Most guys who are probably a little bit older advise that you should bang as many girls as possible, but why? there are usually two reasons, they had a girlfriend and it really sucked, or they banged a ton of chicks and had a great time. the latter of the two, you can probably heed the advice, or at least take it into account, the former...why would you?


another factor is, most older people realize in hindsight that you arent going to end up with teh girl you are dating at 21, becuase they probably didnt, and view it as a time waster.


I cant really understand the sentiment from most of the posters saying "people advocating banging random chicks dont know what they are talking about"....doesnt make sense. none of you guys would ever advocate that kind of advice to a 17 year old asking if he should stay with his HS gf, there really isnt much difference imo.

Re: Girlfriend vs. Random Hooksup (kinda long)
 

i never understood the whole rqndom hookups thing, even havingdone few i sill dont get it.
isnt sex better after aboutthe 30th time you have done it togather, then you know each other kinks, which buttons to push

i dated my wife for over a year, and we have been married over a year now, and it gets better and better.
now its levels better than any hook i had in my early 20s

i never understood putting in any amount of work to sex a girl one time, and only having grea sex on the off chance she is a total freak, and knows her way around, which might be a bad thing

anybody elese

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What I don't understand is the purpose of this OP.

"I'm young. I have a girlfriend. I like it"

The sex can't be THAT good, otherwise you'd be banging her instead of making lame posts like this

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most people are genuinely confused that you are not them

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This is really good.

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