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I am SO happily married to the most beautiful girl going, but I still have feelings for the first girl I fell in love with.

The crazy thing is that I wouldn't trade if given the chance, but I still think about her.

Damn they got hooks, don't they?

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she is the only girl who's virginity I took and I did her in the pooper

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Yeah, those are the special moments. Haha. Well done.

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If you think about her when you are feeling down it may not be the girl at all. You may be missing how she made you feel. It is tough to feel that way ever again.

Now I need a drink.

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Definitely normal. I was with a girl for 5 years, and broke up with her last year. If you're in a relationship at all, you'll see or hear something that reminds you of them. This would be especially true of your first love. I probably think of my ex at least 2-3 times a day, but I'm happy where I'm at now.

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I am 20, have had 4 girlfriends lasting anywhere from 1 month to a year and a half. I have never been in love before, but do still think about my most recent (the year and a half) quite often. I've always assumed that I think about her this much simply because I haven't found anyone else yet. I guess I'll find out when that happens.

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If you think about her when you are feeling down it may not be the girl at all. You may be missing how she made you feel. It is tough to feel that way ever again.

Now I need a drink.

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Truer words would be hard to find. Though she wasn't my first love, there is a girl whom I haven't talked to in almost three years, but I can still monitor my overall life satisfaction and mental well-being by how often I think about her. Whenever I start thinking about her on a daily basis, I know that I'm entering a downward spiral (thoughts of her are a symptom rather than the cause), even if it doesn't consciously feel that way yet.

Scott

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That's weird. I always think about mine when life is going good. Almost like "what if she was here and could enjoy this with me" or whatever? I'm not sure

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we broke up a week before V-day and she basically left me for another guy. We were together for over 5 years and was plannin on proposing soon. I think about her everyday but have found out her new guy is a druggie and a loser. She stopped goin to school and i will graduate and go to law school soon. I realize its for the best cuz we are goin opposite directions in life and i deserved better. You always wonder what could have been, but everything happens for a reason, and i thank god that i didn't propose to her

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mine just broke off her engagement and has been calling me nearly every day. i am conflicted, as i do still think about her a lot.

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I keep coming to this thread thinking I will make a meaningful post. I can't.

I love her, I will always love her. She can go [censored] herself