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wish there was a BASTARD option

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"he told me he was firmly committed to not hitting her himself."

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That's good news. I'm against violence and I don't think inviting her over just to slap her around would have been very appropriate at all.


I think before you make any moves on her at all you have to approach the other guy and make absolutely sure he wasn't intending to do the same thing.
Sounds like you pretty much did that when you said you were interested in her.
But this could have been after you already had been talking to her for a long time and kind of stolen her away leaving him sulking and stewing and getting really pissed that you were stepping all over whatever chance he had with this girl first.

His 'meh, whatever' response which evidently was supposed to mean "don't do it dude" might have been somehow related to something like this and he's just trying his darndest to not be too whiny about it while also feeling a little bit kicked in the stomach.

Something like that anyway could be a possibility.

But if he isn't going to be straight-forward with you about his intentions it's kind of hard for you to play mind-reader.

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i used to give tours at my undergraduate institution for prospective students. this was the best job ever. met a bunch of girls and hooked up with them within the first few weeks of the following year when they enrolled. so dirty.

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So Armenians are like Scandanavians? and Japanese? they don't really tell you what they mean, you're supposed to infer that " I don't know" really means "stay away from her you __."

I would say not fair game unless roommate gives explicit OK.

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Fair game, play ball.

I fully expect a trip report on this.

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Fair game, play ball.

I fully expect a trip report on this.

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maybe I wasn't clear in the OP, she just flew down for one day/night, and my roommate was mad at me for only what went down that night... which was the coveted "base 0" (flirting and non sexual contact LOL)

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Fair game, but my Armenian friends would take issue with it. Their culture is a bit whacked when it comes to courting.

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I see nothing wrong with what you did. I see everything wrong in your roommate acting like a girl.

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I see nothing wrong with what you did. I see everything wrong in your roommate acting like a girl.

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Seconded.

Ray

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i used to give tours at my undergraduate institution for prospective students. this was the best job ever. met a bunch of girls and hooked up with them within the first few weeks of the following year when they enrolled. so dirty.


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This is awesome and dirty at the same time.

I worked at a bar in undergrad and during freshman orientation days, when obvious freshman girls would walk by, the other bouncers and I would pull hot ones out and get them into the bar. This had a very high hookup success rate. Also dirty, yet awesome.