Re: How much does a girl\'s promiscuous past bother you?
 

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Do you think Jenna Jameson became a porn star for her health? I'll say no. Money and dick (and poon). It's that simple.

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Very very very very bad example. Abused as a child.

Re: How much does a girl\'s promiscuous past bother you?
 

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I don't want to derail the thread, but I totally disagree with this type of thought. I don't want to date a girl that's similar to me. I drink / party a lot and I don't want a girl like that. I have slept around a lot and I don't want a girl like that. I have testicles, and I don't want a girl like that. I don't think it's hypocritical to enjoy spending time with someone that is different than / compliments me.

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The reality is that after a few years of marrige you'll realize that you and your wife just don't connect.

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I don't think it's hypocritical to enjoy spending time with someone that is different than / compliments me.

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It's hypocritical to look down on/feel superior to people who engage in the same type of behavior you do.

If you think it's "bad" for a girl to slutt around even though you've been doing the same thing, then congratulations, you're a hypocrite.

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boys and girls aren't the same dude. women aren't programed to bang 50 dudes by the age of 21.

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Yeah, but by the age of 35, the probably are. See the Red Queen and Sperm Wars or any evolutionary biology textbook for more details.

And the enjoying sex = bad mother nonsense gets funnier and funnier as more people repeat it.

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enjoying sex is not the same as enjoying sex with a wide range of men.

i picked up the books you and others recommended and i am looking forward to reading them.

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Part of the problem is: why is/was she promiscuous?

She'll definitely cheat on you.

She's been used by a bunch of guys.

Do u want the mother of your kids to have been with 70 other guys?

Sounds like a keeper.