Unrequited love - what to do? - Page 9

adsman · #81 01-10-2007, 11:44 AM

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A few months later I sent her an email saying I was gay - not actually true, but at the time I thought it might be, since I was such a disaster with women and couldn't get laid. Thankfully I never did anything with guys, just didn't want to.

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I love OOT. It's a brand new year and the laughs are acoming aplenty.

To OP. Has she got a sister? Sleep with her. Has she got a friend? Sleep with her too. Has she got a cousin? Sleep with her. Workmates? Sleep with them while you're at it.

Oh, and stop trying to find 'THE ONE' This thinking will keep you in loser land.

ScottieK · #82 01-10-2007, 11:44 AM

*not reading most of OP...damn that ish is long*
I've been in a situation like that before. If something between you two was going to happen, it would have happened by now. The more you distance yourself from her, the better IMO. Don't call, don't write. Don't keep her in your circle of friends or keep inviting her to stuff....it'll just make you pine for her longer, and you'll be oblivious to the other girls around you who actually may be interested in you. Eventually, you'll stop thinking about her and/or find some other girl to go out with. Haven't you seen Swingers?

ScottieK

Spanaway Vin · #83 01-10-2007, 11:45 AM

OP, did you see last night's House, M.D.?

capone0 · #84 01-10-2007, 11:47 AM

Does OP have a 'vagine' where the penis used to be?

nature\\\'s_hated · #85 01-10-2007, 11:49 AM

Yes, I've seen Swingers but not in a long time. The answerphone scene being what you had in mind?

I was hoping we'd be more When Harry Met Sally, or Max and the barmaid in Sideways.

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*not reading most of OP...damn that ish is long*
I've been in a situation like that before. If something between you two was going to happen, it would have happened by now. The more you distance yourself from her, the better IMO. Don't call, don't write. Don't keep her in your circle of friends or keep inviting her to stuff....it'll just make you pine for her longer, and you'll be oblivious to the other girls around you who actually may be interested in you. Eventually, you'll stop thinking about her and/or find some other girl to go out with. Haven't you seen Swingers?

ScottieK

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nature\\\'s_hated · #86 01-10-2007, 11:50 AM

I could always get her a book:

evil twin · #87 01-10-2007, 11:51 AM

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OP, did you see last night's House, M.D.?

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Wow, thanks for the reminder. I would have missed that. And to the OP, seriously, you sound like a nice guy. You need to read that ladder theory link and realise that's why your friend who wants to screw around is going to end up with someone and you're not.

nature\\\'s_hated · #88 01-10-2007, 11:51 AM

Sorry no, not seen that series at all.

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OP, did you see last night's House, M.D.?

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DrewDevil · #89 01-10-2007, 11:51 AM

FIND SOMEONE ELSE, THIS GIRL DOESN'T LIKE YOU.

nature\\\'s_hated · #90 01-10-2007, 11:53 AM

Yes, I'll check it out - link blocked at work but I'll look when I get home.

This friend of mine amazes me - we'll go to a party, both agree all the girls are ugly, but he'll decide which one is the least ugly and try to sleep with her. He normally succeeds. He got laid on new year's eve with some random girl he met in the centre of town. He gets laid with a different girl each week. He is a bit of a sociopath, and is callous to women, but he gets a lot of punani. Sometimes he even finds a girl he really likes and is suited to. Even if he doesn't, he has fun.

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OP, did you see last night's House, M.D.?

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Wow, thanks for the reminder. I would have missed that. And to the OP, seriously, you sound like a nice guy. You need to read that ladder theory link and realise that's why your friend who wants to screw around is going to end up with someone and you're not.

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