On not contacting Girls...

[Dids]

OK.

Going underwear shopping with her is even more blanant "I want to [censored] you". I would be [censored] livid that she agreed to go along.

[Aloysius]

Brit - is this the chick you were in love with from another post couple months back? Like the one where you had amazing chemistry or whatever, and you wanted her to commit to you, but she wanted to keep it an open relationship?

-Al

[britspin]

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Brit - is this the chick you were in love with from another post couple months back? Like the one where you had amazing chemistry or whatever, and you wanted her to commit to you, but she wanted to keep it an open relationship?

-Al

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Yeah- that's the one. In the end, I said that if she wanted to keep it open fine, but I would see other people too, and she chose to make it exclusive, but it's partly why I'm finding it hard to trust her right now.

[Bluffoon]

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brit,

I think you're maybe getting too pissed off. I'm sure the call was to tell him that she really likes you and that he shouldn't think that the quickie they had in his room before dinner is going to be a regular thing, just semi-regular.

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Ed's right brit. Dont get angry. Just move on. Sorry man... Hey on the bright side now you get to bang new babes.

[Aloysius]

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Brit - is this the chick you were in love with from another post couple months back? Like the one where you had amazing chemistry or whatever, and you wanted her to commit to you, but she wanted to keep it an open relationship?

-Al

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Yeah- that's the one. In the end, I said that if she wanted to keep it open fine, but I would see other people too, and she chose to make it exclusive, but it's partly why I'm finding it hard to trust her right now.

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Brit - uhmmm... maybe she's a whore and you should just break up with her?

-Al

[keikiwai]

I think as long as this group of people is part of this forum and not this forum, you'll be good.

Edit: I had a gf who did some weird stuff in her past, but whenever she got together w/ the people involved she would take me along, eventhough they were a group... she did this to make me feel more comfortable.

It was a similar situation w/ a big group and w/ in that group were two guys she had hooked up with. I would not have been comfortable having her go alone, but I went along, and it ended up ok.

[britspin]

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Brit - is this the chick you were in love with from another post couple months back? Like the one where you had amazing chemistry or whatever, and you wanted her to commit to you, but she wanted to keep it an open relationship?

-Al

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Yeah- that's the one. In the end, I said that if she wanted to keep it open fine, but I would see other people too, and she chose to make it exclusive, but it's partly why I'm finding it hard to trust her right now.

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Brit - uhmmm... maybe she's a whore and you should just break up with her?

-Al

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Or maybe you're wrong, she's telling the truth and I don't like you calling her a whore?

OK, guys. I think we've now reached the limit of what OOT can offer- I need to have that terrifying thing a reasonable and adult conversation with someone I love who may knowingly, or unknowingly be hurting me.

Thanks for the comments and advice. I appreciate it.

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I don't think this is automatic breakup stuff but I think its time to define exactly how you expect to be treated

[Bluffoon]

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I don't think this is automatic breakup stuff but I think its time to define exactly how you expect to be treated

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In my experience when you have to define the way you expect to be treated you are in a world of trouble

[bobman0330]

Just dump her man, she's not worth it.